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Ionlyspeaktruth
01-26-2009, 09:05 PM
or is there a better chance of hitting the lotto and getting struck by lightnning in the same day than there is of winning an argument with your woman??:SuN024::SuN037::10500::10500: I mean it. I am just going over things in my head and i swear i cant come up with a time. Why is that?:haha::haha::em2300: P.S i meant brothers of course

MenNefer
01-26-2009, 09:32 PM
or is there a better chance of hitting the lotto and getting struck by lightnning in the same day than there is of winning an argument with your woman??:SuN024::SuN037::10500::10500: I mean it. I am just going over things in my head and i swear i cant come up with a time. Why is that?:haha::haha::em2300: P.S i meant brothers of course

I'm responding to this because I'm fresh off a "disagreement" with my mate.

just when I'm about to solve for x and balance the equation it turns into some hodge podge discussion about my inadequacies....then the jedi mind trick of requesting I repeat, verbatim, everything that led up to my point to get slammed dunked by the ole (Thats not what you said) and then the "memory is selective" bit (just in case she is reading:luvu:)

Ionlyspeaktruth
01-26-2009, 10:02 PM
I'm responding to this because I'm fresh off a "disagreement" with my mate.

just when I'm about to solve for x and balance the equation it turns into some hodge podge discussion about my inadequacies....then the jedi mind trick of requesting I repeat, verbatim, everything that led up to my point to get slammed dunked by the ole (Thats not what you said) and then the "memory is selective" bit (just in case she is reading:luvu:)



LOL! I am aware of that bruh. LOL@ "just in case she is reading":haha::haha::em2300: how bout the one where you concede and are told "you are just saying that. you dont mean it" :10500::10500::getout::bye:

Astrologer4U
01-26-2009, 10:11 PM
Woman over here, see me? :tweety:

I sympothize with you brothas, really I do. :grin:

oldiesman
01-27-2009, 10:03 AM
or is there a better chance of hitting the lotto and getting struck by lightnning in the same day than there is of winning an argument with your woman??:SuN024::SuN037::10500::10500: I mean it. I am just going over things in my head and i swear i cant come up with a time. Why is that?:haha::haha::em2300: P.S i meant brothers of coursehahahahaha,you stand a better chance of..WALKING ON WATER before you win and argument with a woman and believe me i know,my wife is the queen of[you ain't gettin the last word on me]and after 30yrs i haven't[but sometimes it's fun tryin,hehe]so just shrug your shoulders,shake your head and surrender,because that's a battle that's over before it begins.

Khasm13
01-27-2009, 11:10 AM
as kenny rodgers once said...
u gotta know when to hold em and know when to fold em...lmao!!!

one love
khasm

Zulile
01-27-2009, 11:37 AM
Gents - I've heard some rumour.. vaguely.. must be a couple decades ago... I think it went something like... ummmm... "A Good Wife" will let her husband win an argument or two :?:

Fortunately we know in these modern times, the person who wins, is right.

and that's final.

hrmph. (<----added for good measure)

:heart:

Rashad
01-27-2009, 11:41 AM
I like trying to win the argument it helps in many ways. U learn about yourself and herself during these moments. What's really important in the relationship between one another and I think it helps sharpens the mind to be better people in the end. Even tho having an argument is not always fun, It's always a lesson learned...
I preciate the creator of this thread...All of yall r funny! One!

oldiesman
01-27-2009, 11:54 AM
Gents - I've heard some rumour.. vaguely.. must be a couple decades ago... I think it went something like... ummmm... "A Good Wife" will let her husband win an argument or two :?:

Fortunately we know in these modern times, the person who wins, is right.

and that's final.

hrmph. (<----added for good measure)

:heart:believe zulile,that one about[letting the husband win one]uhh no,my wife would bleach her skin before she EVER lets me win one.

Zulile
01-27-2009, 12:02 PM
believe zulile,that one about[letting the husband win one]uhh no,my wife would bleach her skin before she EVER lets me win one.

ahhhhh... blackmailing you, eh? If you win an argument she'll go white on your butt??? :lol: :lol: You are excused from ever winning an argument! The penalty is too fierce!

:wave: Oldies - always a pleasure to read you on the forums!

:heart:

Nasheed
01-27-2009, 12:17 PM
or is there a better chance of hitting the lotto and getting struck by lightnning in the same day than there is of winning an argument with your woman??:SuN024::SuN037::10500::10500: I mean it. I am just going over things in my head and i swear i cant come up with a time. Why is that?:haha::haha::em2300: P.S i meant brothers of course

Not 2 argue. Im not gonna win and if I do er-thang frm 10 yrs ago will be an issue later. I stay quiet, say okay, and push on. The last time I tried 2 win an argument I went frm 225- 190lbs in 3 hrs. I aint killing myself in a no win situation.

Dont argue u might end up like this:dance3: or in this:wchair:

My brain hurts jus thinking about it.

ready2chat
01-27-2009, 01:16 PM
I love this thread.. just the thought of always winning an argument thrills me!

But we all know ya'll got your great ways of winning and making us think we won!

Or the, I'm leaving so I don't do...... your argument that was started for the soul purpose of getting out with the boys. :drink::bowl::pool::darts:

LOL... yeah... we know!

MenNefer
01-27-2009, 05:24 PM
I'll say this .........if you been married for some years and you up in a forum or chat room huffin and puffin about your position ...you either takin your frustrations out for all those times you couldn't win with the wife, in a dam good relationship, or a tyrannical husband.

jamesfrmphilly
01-27-2009, 06:05 PM
i won an argument once. it was back in 95....or was it 96?
i dunno. i think i remember.....:qqb019:

lilpea
01-27-2009, 06:31 PM
Brother Ionly ...

I have but one thing to say ......listen to your woman... case closed

Lilpea :1on1:

Kemetstry
01-27-2009, 06:41 PM
or is there a better chance of hitting the lotto and getting struck by lightnning in the same day than there is of winning an argument with your woman??:SuN024::SuN037::10500::10500: I mean it. I am just going over things in my head and i swear i cant come up with a time. Why is that?:haha::haha::em2300: P.S i meant brothers of course

:grin:



*Pulling up a chair and opening some munchies to watch this train wreck*

:SuN019::qqb012::SuN017:

.o0( May GOD have mercy on your soul )

Ionlyspeaktruth
01-27-2009, 07:47 PM
I'll say this .........if you been married for some years and you up in a forum or chat room huffin and puffin about your position ...you either takin your frustrations out for all those times you couldn't win with the wife, in a dam good relationship, or a tyrannical husband.



Yup, or the ones that talk about "ruling the roost" king of the castle" and all that>>>>>>> Rookies. Like Bill cosby said "i don't know when I lost control... or if I ever had it":SuN023::em2300::10900: hold up, lemme ask my lady friend if i am allowed to be in charge of anything!:skillet::skillet: >>>> I got my answer!

bigzel69
01-27-2009, 08:12 PM
or is there a better chance of hitting the lotto and getting struck by lightnning in the same day than there is of winning an argument with your woman??:SuN024::SuN037::10500::10500: I mean it. I am just going over things in my head and i swear i cant come up with a time. Why is that?:haha::haha::em2300: P.S i meant brothers of course


Ull never win an argument wit u woman. its a waste of time and its a guaranteed lost. A debate u can win but if u do that it could possibly turn into an argument. then if u even dont argue back, the arguing gets worse so u lose if u dont talk. its a lose, lose, lose situation lol just gotta be a man an take it i learned.

Knowledge Seed
01-27-2009, 09:19 PM
When I was in 8th, a school assistant came to the class room I was in and said "Young men, if you haven't learned anything in all of your years here, at least know that you can never win an argument with a woman"

$$RICH$$
01-28-2009, 12:59 AM
without any doubt ya not gonna beat a woman out when it comes to an argument
you do better just saying you right dear and let it go !

Kemetstry
01-28-2009, 07:24 PM
.o0( GOD help you if they are on PMS when they go after you )

:em4000::yesno:

$$RICH$$
01-28-2009, 08:53 PM
brother Kemetstry you said a mouth full you like a rump roast if they are whewwww!!!
no pain / no gain / no win

Kemetstry
01-28-2009, 09:46 PM
brother Kemetstry you said a mouth full you like a rump roast if they are whewwww!!!
no pain / no gain / no win

:qqb024::SuN019::em4000::qqb012::yesno:


I see you are a man of experience :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

oldiesman
01-29-2009, 09:10 AM
and if you think it's only the human females that want the last word,well brothers let me tell you a little story that happens to be true i witnessed it..one day last summer i was sitting by an area where geese sometimes come to hunt for food,well the female was there when the male showed up she started in on him the same way a human wife would[maybe he was hanging around with seagulls]anyhow after afew minutes of this the male just flew away no lie,so see fellas we just ain't gonna win no arguments with them sisters even if we come back as geese...I SURRENDER...

Rashad
01-29-2009, 09:36 AM
Yall seem very experienced in these things and I can appreciate this thread here. Stuff like this is good to read and learn from...I've learned just to :shutup: when my lady is on me real bad instead of all the :yesno: It does no good...

One Luv Brothas!

MRLEGEND
02-23-2009, 11:58 AM
the easy way out is to concede, but giving up is for suckers

My swordsmanship is unparalled in the art of verbal conflict

To win arguments with women you first have to fully understand women. Women run on a different engine than us.

Women run on a rotary based engine, men run on diesel engines. They both get us to where we are going, but with different motivations and resolve.

The game is to be sold to you , not told to you...or you wouldn't value or respect what you have.

I will say this, the key is to know what they are really arguing for, not about.

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