lovers become one to a desire
of affection to love in whole
wit compassion of knowin
ya heart is all into them
but how true is it !?

what happens when one
venture off for a new desire
yet the flame is still lit
is it that he/she just wanna
cheat outside the relationship?

now how much love is in that
when u catch them dead wrong
what would u do..............?????????

LET ME HEAR YO INSIGHT >>>>>>>
IS IT ALL A MYTH OF SOME BAD DREAM
OR IS IT DA TRUTH OF REALITY IN
RELATIONSHIPS....

That's why so many end in such hurt & pain
in our tyme
love da lover to be loved as love is given !:confused:

If they venture (greediness), then that flame is no longer lit.

kebah

so u saying that one whom venture off lite dems to a no glow
for the other mate whom they indeed took as a desire .........?

now indeed i've found many too seek outside their relationship
to do what he or she wouldn't do at home some even act out
their fantascy ...... it's wrong foolish and bold !

Originally posted by $$RICH$$
so u saying that one whom venture off lite dems to a no glow
for the other mate whom they indeed took as a desire .........?



I'm speaking about the ACT of sexual intercourse, not some "desire".

Why would one "desire" someone other than what one has?

Desires must'nt be mistaken for needs. We don't need everything we desire.....and thankfully so.

kebah

INDEED YA RIGHT !!!DESIRE IS A MYTH OF THE MIND WE POSE
EVEN IN A SEXUAL MATTER.... THANKZ 4 DA READ

If we, as humans, are above animals then why can't we control our sexual desires? In animals, it is innate.

But, if our desires control us instead of we conquering them, what does that say about us as humans, more sophisticated creatures?

lovers become one to a desire
of affection to love in whole
wit compassion of knowin
ya heart is all into them
but how true is it !?

what happens when one
venture off for a new desire
yet the flame is still lit
is it that he/she just wanna
cheat outside the relationship?

now how much love is in that
when u catch them dead wrong
what would u do..............?????????

LET ME HEAR YO INSIGHT >>>>>>>
IS IT ALL A MYTH OF SOME BAD DREAM
OR IS IT DA TRUTH OF REALITY IN
RELATIONSHIPS....

That's why so many end in such hurt & pain
in our tyme
love da lover to be loved as love is given !:confused:hey rich,we're again mixing love with lust and it's a bad mix[kinda like trying to make a chocholate cake with mud-don't taste too good]no my brother when it's LOVE you'll know it,one way is you won't think as much about laying with her as you will about just sitting beside her...CAN YOU DIG IT?

I'm speaking about the ACT of sexual intercourse, not some "desire".

Why would one "desire" someone other than what one has?

Desires must'nt be mistaken for needs. We don't need everything we desire.....and thankfully so.

kebah

Why is there so much power given to sex?

lovers become one to a desire
of affection to love in whole
wit compassion of knowin
ya heart is all into them
but how true is it !?

what happens when one
venture off for a new desire
yet the flame is still lit
is it that he/she just wanna
cheat outside the relationship?

now how much love is in that
when u catch them dead wrong
what would u do..............?????????

LET ME HEAR YO INSIGHT >>>>>>>
IS IT ALL A MYTH OF SOME BAD DREAM
OR IS IT DA TRUTH OF REALITY IN
RELATIONSHIPS....

That's why so many end in such hurt & pain
in our tyme
love da lover to be loved as love is given !:confused:

What happens when a person cheats is the betrays the trust of the other person. The sexual act is secondary even though most people don't see it that way. We give way too much power to the act of having sex. That is why people like Will and Jada, Ruby Dee and Osie Davis said they would be OPEN about their sex outside of the marriage. And the result is that they have THE STRONGEST MARRIAGES IN THE WORLD!

So, sex only causes a problem in the marriage when people are too selfish and brainwashed to figure out that sex outside of the relationship MEANS NOTHING in the grand scheme of things.