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According to a recently released study, the weapon most used by men to kill African American women was a gun.

The Violence Policy Center, a national non-profit organization that conducts research on violence in the United States stated in its annual report, "When Men Murder Women: An Analysis of 2006 Homicide Data," that 551 African American women were murdered by males that year.

Of those homicides where a murder weapon could be identified, 305 of the victims were fatally shot and most during the course of an argument.

The study stated there were 1,818 race-identified females murdered by males. And while white women accounted for the largest total of those killed–1,208–African American women were killed at a rate nearly three times higher.

Full Article here (www.chicagodefender.com/article-2110-domestic-violence-hits-black-women-harder.html)


Have you ever been a Victim or Perpetrator of 'Domestic Violence'?

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According to a recently released study, the weapon most used by men to kill African American women was a gun.

The Violence Policy Center, a national non-profit organization that conducts research on violence in the United States stated in its annual report, "When Men Murder Women: An Analysis of 2006 Homicide Data," that 551 African American women were murdered by males that year.

Of those homicides where a murder weapon could be identified, 305 of the victims were fatally shot and most during the course of an argument.

The study stated there were 1,818 race-identified females murdered by males. And while white women accounted for the largest total of those killed–1,208–African American women were killed at a rate nearly three times higher.

Full Article here (www.chicagodefender.com/article-2110-domestic-violence-hits-black-women-harder.html)


Have you ever been a Victim or Perpetrator of 'Domestic Violence'?



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The evil ex tried to whoop me up several time :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

In that many of these socalled studies about our people have been found to be based on bogus data: {There are more black males in prison than universities }. I would have to ask the source

The study stated there were 1,818 race-identified females murdered by males. And while white women accounted for the largest total of those killed–1,208–African American women were killed at a rate nearly three times higher. having problems with the math, here. or is something missing from the last sentence? 1800 - 1200 = 600 (all approx) 1200 = two-thirds; 600 = one-third: where does "three times higher" come from?

but, as the repugniklan has shown; who needs accuracy when emotionalism "works" so much better?

having problems with the math, here. or is something missing from the last sentence? 1800 - 1200 = 600 (all approx) 1200 = two-thirds; 600 = one-third: where does "three times higher" come from?

but, as the repugniklan has shown; who needs accuracy when emotionalism "works" so much better?

I agree stats are easy to manipulate, depending on the intent and purpose of the data collector.

I would assume the claim "3 times higher" is data/race population.

"Domestic violence hits Black women harder" was this an intentional pun?

the function of the global system of white supremacy is to have all social pathologies "hit" black people "harder"

I never believe the data-base , but there have been many stories of domestic violence
against women / battered /rape and assault battery

I've never been a victim or a perpetrator to such acts but a witness to many
but a victim of being verbally abused often throughout life.

is this a taboo subject? Or is arguing the statistics of that particular article enough to.. sweep the rest under the rug?

Why have only men responded? Is that a sign of a "perp" in defense mode? ;) or are Black women not willing to share their 'weakness' in allowing it have happened?

Personally, I have no reason to believe Black women/men are LESS abused (within the definition of domestic violence) than other races. I would expect it would be more, by our near insane circumstances alone. Is this something we can shift blame on? Why can we talk so easy, so freely, on issues like so-called 'black-on-black' crime, drug abuse, racial injustices, unemployment etc but mention domestic violence and one prefers to address the given stats rather than the issue? Is it not an issue?

http://www.blackwomenshealth.com/2006/articles.php?id=35

A Painful Dilemma

Many Black women may find it harder to leave a battering relationship than White women. The reasons for this are unclear, but some possible explanations include the following: (1) African American women have fewer options in their search for a marital partner than do White women; (2) African American women on average, have a lower income level than that of most White women; (3) Black women are reluctant to call the police because they see the racial injustice in the criminal justice system; (4) community support systems including women’s shelters and other service programs may be less available to them and they may view the shelter system movement as something mainly to benefit White women. Unfortunately, many Black women resort to “homicide” as an answer to the violence and battering they encounter.

I can count, on one hand, the number of Black women/men I know who have NOT been abused in their relationships at some point.

"Domestic violence hits Black women harder" was this an intentional pun?

the function of the global system of white supremacy is to have all social pathologies "hit" black people "harder"

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well seen, james!

is this a taboo subject? Or is arguing the statistics of that particular article enough to.. sweep the rest under the rug?

Why have only men responded? Is that a sign of a "perp" in defense mode? ;) or are Black women not willing to share their 'weakness' in allowing it have happened?

Personally, I have no reason to believe Black women/men are LESS abused (within the definition of domestic violence) than other races. I would expect it would be more, by our near insane circumstances alone. Is this something we can shift blame on? Why can we talk so easy, so freely, on issues like so-called 'black-on-black' crime, drug abuse, racial injustices, unemployment etc but mention domestic violence and one prefers to address the given stats rather than the issue? Is it not an issue?

http://www.blackwomenshealth.com/2006/articles.php?id=35

A Painful Dilemma

Many Black women may find it harder to leave a battering relationship than White women. The reasons for this are unclear, but some possible explanations include the following: (1) African American women have fewer options in their search for a marital partner than do White women; (2) African American women on average, have a lower income level than that of most White women; (3) Black women are reluctant to call the police because they see the racial injustice in the criminal justice system; (4) community support systems including women’s shelters and other service programs may be less available to them and they may view the shelter system movement as something mainly to benefit White women. Unfortunately, many Black women resort to “homicide” as an answer to the violence and battering they encounter.

I can count, on one hand, the number of Black women/men I know who have NOT been abused in their relationships at some point.






It isnt and shouldnt be a taboo subject. I think some, including myself would like the data vetted. :welldone: Because I dont know too many sisters taking an butt whooping or being killed. Domestic violence is on the rise due to the economic times. But in the Detroit area, it's the burbies doing all the killing

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I’m happy the topic of domestic violence has been put out there. It is a very important subject no matter what statistics reflect. Women are dying and children are growing up in dysfunctional environments where they learn how to become abusers or abused.

I believe another possible explanation, as far as the option of shelters maybe pride. Some may view living in a shelter and the stigma of it a worse place than the place they are, especially if children are involved.

I live in Raleigh and in the state of North Carolina there is a domestic violence related homicide reported in the news just about EVERY WEEK! Sometimes TWO in a week! There was one this week even.


Bring it into the light so it can be seen. Keeping quiet gives abusers more power.

Oh, to answer your question:) I have never been a victim, but I do know at least two classmates who are deceased due to domestic violence. And I too, know of women who have lived in an abusive relationship.


Its another form of black on black crime that I believe most of us have had a family member, a friend or a co-worker who has been a victim or perpetrator,




Thank you for bringing some light.:)


MaddSistahlyLove!
Coco:heart:

in the sense it's already hard

but i think it's even across the board

I’m happy the topic of domestic violence has been put out there. It is a very important subject no matter what statistics reflect. Women are dying and children are growing up in dysfunctional environments where they learn how to become abusers or abused.

I believe another possible explanation, as far as the option of shelters maybe pride. Some may view living in a shelter and the stigma of it a worse place than the place they are, especially if children are involved.

I live in Raleigh and in the state of North Carolina there is a domestic violence related homicide reported in the news just about EVERY WEEK! Sometimes TWO in a week! There was one this week even.


Bring it into the light so it can be seen. Keeping quiet gives abusers more power.

Oh, to answer your question:) I have never been a victim, but I do know at least two classmates who are deceased due to domestic violence. And I too, know of women who have lived in an abusive relationship.


Its another form of black on black crime that I believe most of us have had a family member, a friend or a co-worker who has been a victim or perpetrator,




Thank you for bring some light.:)


MaddSistahlyLove!
Coco:heart:

Greetings and Hotep SiS Cocobutterskyn!

I agree that it is a topic that would do well to be aired. I am a firm believer that "We are as Sick as our Secrets" and living in a domestically abusive relationships is a long standing Secret I suspect for many Women of Afreekan Descent. There are many factors supporting this secrecy and you have touched on a pretty big one. The stigma associated with "sheltered" living is enormous as you are placed in a highly dependent position..dependent on the system to "protect and provide" you is so unacceptable. In order to maintain safety even, one must maintain 'secrecy' as to their whereabouts. You have social workers, psychiatrists, case managers all up in your business...oh for shame, shame, shame.

I have not been a victim of physical abuse by a man, yet have experienced emotional abuse. Domestic violence is typically associated with physical abuse, yet, I believe this definition ought be expanded and take into account emotional and sexual abuse. There is so much that can be said on this topic and at the end of the day, I know that while it may be a painful process...airing the dirty laundry...it is necessary so it can be cleansed.

That's all I can say for now.
Thank You SiS Zulile for bringing this out and for pressing the issue.


M.E.
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is this a taboo subject?

i don't know much about it. i've never been involved one way or the other.
as is my practice, when i don't know nothing i shut up.

i don't know much about it. i've never been involved one way or the other.
as is my practice, when i don't know nothing i shut up.


I beg to differ...

One statistic that is rarely reported is domestic violence against BLACK MEN!!
But the most pertinent question is, "Why aren't battered spouses deep-fried?

One statistic that is rarely reported is domestic violence against BLACK MEN!!
But the most pertinent question is, "Why aren't battered spouses deep-fried?



Men dont generally talk about their own abuse

One statistic that is rarely reported is domestic violence against BLACK MEN!!
But the most pertinent question is, "Why aren't battered spouses deep-fried?

from 2 women

i'd rather spend my time loving a woman instead of fighting her
but this post is about black women i think the women have it harder
based on the child factor, as well as the other issues that we suffer

oh about my abuse?
well i guess once she(they) realized i wasn't the "beat on me" type
you know i'm not one of them man lol
and once over that hump both relationships never involved physical confrontation again
because i not into fighting let alone fighting a woman
fighting leads to killing so i'm not trying to die or go to jail
i won't hit you
please don't hit me

a woman taught me (my mama) "i don't care who hit you, you hit they *** back lol

if have i to fight with you, i don't need to be with you it's all good with me
violence should not be in a relationship at all
it's a relationship, a building block
not a sparring match
if you have to hit on each other then you have to get it together
an abusive relationship is an abusive relationship mentioned earlier in this post

whether the abuse is mental (emotional), physical, or financial

and if you have any of these 3 in a relationship then it's an abusive relationship, alot of people think domestic violence is physical, but these 3
are the common factors, physical is the most highlighted, nobody wants to (should be) beaten on:skillet:

So’ja, I agree with,
whether the abuse is mental (emotional), physical, or financial

and if you have any of these 3 in a relationship then it's an abusive relationship, alot of people think domestic violence is physical, but these 3
are the common factors, physical is the most highlighted

Although not in every case “mental(emotional)financial” abuse can lead up to physical abuse. I believe for some abusers if lighter (above mentioned) abusive measures fail to keep the abused in line and them in control, a heavier physical attack will.

I believe a lot of people think as long as its not physical its acceptable/tolerable. There are women with the thought, at least he’s not hitting me.



Be Blessed!
Coco:heart: