how is it that love awaits in da wings
under the voice of hearts to fine true
love in a relationship
many say they fine it through the eyes
some say the heart
others seek it out sexualy
is it a fact or a myth of conception?

the two who fine self in togetherness
is lable wit love the black essence
of embrace and bond with trust
honesty is the key but who will come
to the front and speak !
relationships is build on many grounds

even when he stinks !

yes truth of honesty is a beautiful start but so many yet lie
the heart can misguide u sometyme in the wrong thang but
ya soul makes u wonder coz what u feel inside and now u
start to think !!:confused:

Honesty,respect,loyalty,caring are the things both partners should have in the relationship toward one another.

loyal to ya mate wit truth and trust is major keys
but why do so many not love but lust sexualy

honesty makes it work when ya lovin for the right reason
but lust is only a myth of self for a moment of passion
:rolleyes:

It is terrible when U cheat because things R never the same btwn the two partners,things began 2 change this country is wonderful but exploits 2 much sex and offers 2 much sex on the internet. Some of us feed our minds with this garbage and become mentally sexually charged. If a person is away from thier wife or their husband ,they may get tempted 4 the moment and cheat on the job, or with a study partner at school. :kiss: temptation can be hard to pass if that is what U C daily, flashes of sex on the net and etc. What I am trying to say, it is 2 much sex promotion and not enough celbasy promotion, 2 be a bad boy is taught as a good high regard in the states. We are misserably off.

too much sexual stuff round our solo hearts
in da heat of da moment that transform
into lustful notions

what happen to true love???????:confused:
the net pose mess such as dis and some
just can't help them self the temptation is powerful
cheatting is a foolish game of misguided bullshyt
only a true love relationship will be victored in da end
ya right just too much going on in da world today

I thank u for ya imput and wisdom shared on this
matter u have brighten up the smoke som' what
but what happen 2 true love ?????:confused:

TRUE LOVE IS LIKE A COLD GLASS OF WATER ON A HOT DAY, SOUL SATISFYING, Sex without love has a cold feeling and many people feel like an empty shell being intimate where there is no love. Like Marvin Gaye's song ;sexual healing to me is a soul love true love heals, and that is what God rally made the sex 4 is btwn 2 peeps. The devil will always come around and try to tept the same way he did eve in the garden, and it is up to God who stands up inside of us to put stregnth were there is weakness.:love:

dat's true soulful love fo sho
only in GOD eyez forth he see
through us and allow us our
mind to think
but so many get lost in the game
of sexuality lust
it's a thin line between love&lust
making compassionate love
and having sex
like u said like a cold glass of water
on a hot summer night
thank ya for all u have shared wit me ...:heart: :D

about relationships of lovin
from heart and da sexual side
affects of lust in da mist of sex

why do we accept this bashing
from our mate or new found lover
hummmm!:rolleyes:

Love is very complicated and many times people don't know how to respond when troubles come in relationships, because many people have not had the opportunity to see their parents or other close relatives go through, for many different reasons but I have noticed in many black families the father and mother character are depleted. Leaving the kids and mother, so when the child grows they have developed a mother child character and have only learned that role to play in society. When they find a relationship no matter what a person does it's almost ok because they have identifyied love with=blood is thicker than water, and maybe the other partner takes the role of mother or father which ever parent raised them, and a parent could never do no wrong. That was just a long shot guess and my oppinion as well

i find this to be true as well i also find that some
children is motherless and gurls grow to be more
of a role to play in a relationship as of males who
wish to control one this where i see da breakdown
i notice young relationships ends in da act of lust
or a act of sexuality mostly da male inforcing dis as
the female wanna wait ....ya right many not know of
a true relationship and get lost in some bad vibe
i really thank u for all ya reply's on such matter it gives
a light at da end of the dark road ahead.

I tell u a relationship wit out all spoken on
is a sad way to live like u gotta be their
or u can't leave i hear this way too much!

In most cases when the women leave they are on drugs, most of the time it is not the man's case , drugs are not usually the case for men, I'm not sure but I think the men leave because they feel they can do better without all of the weight and responsibility of a family. In most cases the women don't just walk away like men do, there have to be some drastic happening in thier life to leave, some men just leave if the going gets tough.

yeah! some males run like children from home
due to lost direction and affection that their love
one can't give others leave due to a nother woman
and what they offer some just run from responsibility
as da female also know for lack of love in a relationship
given by there mate i found that some cast away due to
stress and cheating looking for that love ,emotionally
a female is the strongest link in a relationship also
knows how to keep the fire lit as one do get tired
and will walk away from it all only when they tryed
so hard , sure drugs also have a role in this
she become more abusive and more out spoken
where a male lover can't understand he will also break
away we have so much going on in a relationship
yet we have few answers to the problem we face
as life move forward in time see back in the days a
relationship was real a love untouched now it's all play
like a toy why play with a person feelings & emotion?:eek:

I think it is because of cultural diversion, we as a people did not have many examples to hold on to, like back in the days of Martin Luther King, we stuck together because we were ousted from going to certain restrooms,schools,resturants, so we were forced to stay together. Now days we have greater access about learning other cultures, and I have learned that they have the opptions to date outside of their race, but they love each other so much that they find it more convienient to date in thier own cultures. Like African Americans if they choose to love one another, and date only black, many have accussed them of being a racists. On the other people love thier own race and nothing is said, although you have some of them who have strayed and the punishment is so harsh, they are usually ousted from thier race, yet on the AA side the family excepts outsiders better than we are excepted. I think racial guidelines are tougher with other cultures and races and we accept any and all, in most cases and this could be part of our big problem.

I meant to say I think Kwanza will help to bring back a since of pride that was lost in our race and bring back culture as well as closeness.

now that's something to smile about
something to think on and hopefully
so love and unity can return to our people:)