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dustyelbow
06-10-2006, 12:06 PM
Sins of the FATHER visited on the SONS.

Genetic Quality of Sperm Deteriorates as Men Age
06.06.06, 12:00 AM ET

TUESDAY, June 6 (HealthDay News) -- A pioneering study has found specific genetic defects in the sperm of older men.

The results suggest that, like women, some men who wait to become fathers raise the risk of passing on certain diseases to their children.

But Andrew J. Wyrobek, lead author of the report and a senior medical biophysicist at the Lawrence Livermore National Laboratory, in California, cautioned that the findings are preliminary because the study was based on just a few tests, one of them developed as recently as this year.

Still, the discovery has endless possibilities, he added.

"This opens up a whole line of research," Wyrobek said. "We have looked at a few genes out of many hundreds. We need tests for those other genes to look at their function as affected by age."

The findings appear in this week's issue of the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.

It has been known that offspring of older fathers are more likely to suffer from conditions such as schizophrenia and achondroplasia, a form of dwarfism, the journal report said. The study enlisted 97 men, aged 22 to 80, from two locations -- the Livermore, Calif., area and Baltimore, the home of Johns Hopkins University, whose researchers participated in the trial.

Many of the findings found no link between birth defects and the sperm of older men. For instance, there was no increase in the incidence of multiple or missing chromosomes that cause Down syndrome and several other genetic conditions. But there was an increase in gene mutations that can lead to achondroplasia and Apert syndrome, which causes malformation of the skull.

Conventional measurements of sperm quantity, such as sperm count and mobility, were not related to the genetic abnormalities, the researchers found.

One intriguing discovery involved a difference in some of the genetic defects, depending on where the men lived. The California group consisted largely of middle-class whites, while the Baltimore group included many inner-city residents. "In the inner city people from Baltimore, we found an age effect that we did not find in California," Wyrobek said.

That finding, he said, "raises the question of whether things that affect the aging process differ among people with different backgrounds, such as income," he said.

Dr. Ethylin Wang Jabs, a professor of pediatric genetics at Johns Hopkins and a member of the research team, said, "We think some of the mutations or changes we are studying could be caused by environmental effects."

There might also be an economic cause for the differences, Jabs said, "but I would be cautious about this because our numbers were small."

The study could help resolve a running debate about the effect of age on the genetic quality of sperm, Wyrobek said. "There have been some studies here or there that look at a single endpoint," he said. "In one person they might find a change, in the next person they might not find it."

What the study shows is that as they grow older, "a small fraction of men are at risk for transmitting multiple genetic and chromosomal defects," the report concluded.

More information

For more on birth defects, visit the March of Dimes.

Fool mode...

Since older men hold more WEALTH than younger men on AVERAGE.

Really FAR ABOVE AVERAGE.

With many young women looking for SECURITY in the form of SOCIAL STATUS and FAMILY PURPOSE.

This type of UNION which is very FREQUENT, and I do considered WRONG not because of the AGE DIFFERENCE but because OLD MEN greedily HOLD and STRANGLED (KILLED) the WEALTH so that there is hardly none for the new YOUNGER generation TODAY to BUILD with, could put the NEXT GENERATION in PHYSICAL JEOPARDY.

Oh well, that what we all get as a WORLD including "ruthless" white.

I am not WORRIED.

Finished

jamesfrmphilly
06-10-2006, 05:15 PM
growing old is pretty difficult.
there are health problems and money problems.
if you are an older black man you are already paying heavy dues.

why then do we have to take this abuse on top of that?

Sefirot
06-10-2006, 07:56 PM
You should always question the quality of ones intent.
I seem to recall a study on so-called "Phrenology" as well as The Bell Curve.

$$RICH$$
06-11-2006, 01:41 AM
I don't think by this our next generation is in any more danger .
I really can't see it from what i have saw throughout my life time
where older mates and bringing forth children have any damage
these children are as bright and as healthy, really there findings
don't hold no solid facts or merit .

what's killing off the next generation is the many youth lost to the streets
banging each other through foolishness /self greed and jealousy not no
genetic illiness or diseases in fact today there are more women able and
standing solo with social status and security , by far our younger upcoming
generation is in jeopardy , just going to be short to a degree of self greed
they need to dig deeper into the truth that is displayed daily in life , i don't believe it.

so i say i'm not worried .

dustyelbow
06-11-2006, 12:20 PM
Sugar Daddies(=Vol. II, §14.2.1.1) [up] [Contents] [Geographic Index] [Ethnographic Index]


Typical of Sub-Saharan Africa (Uganda, Malawi, Kenya, Ethiopia, Botswana, Zimbabwe, Nigeria, Tanzania[208], South Africa) and the Caribbean (Jamaica), the "sugar daddy"[209] syndrome, refers to older, relatively wealthy men who engage adolescents in sexual relationships. Schoolgirls find sugar daddies to pay school fees, etc. (Van Haren, 1999[210]; Sellix, 1996[211]; Bledsoe 1990[212]; Meekers and Calvès, 1997[213] and refs.).



Authors[214] have argued against an essentialist concept of "sugared" relationships as unilateral and coercive. Silberschmidt and Rasch (2001)[215] observed that older adolescent girls are normally seen as victims and easy preys of older and married men's sexual exploitation. However, the article was to suggest that these girls are "not only victims but also willing preys and active social agents engaging in high-risk sexual behaviour" with old males (relationships called mpenzi). Discussing these abusive patterns within the "more diffuse forms of sexual economic exchange", Johnson[216] recently argued that



"[t]here are thus many situations in which both adults and children are legally and socially considered capable of giving meaningful sexual consent despite being massively disadvantaged in relation to their sexual partner in terms of socio-economic power. It follows, then, that the Sugar Daddy does not usually need to distort social agreed ideas about childhood or sexual consent in order to rationalise a sexual relationship with a teenage girl. Nor can his motivations necessarily be described as aberrant. In many cultures, youthful female bodies are considered sexually desirable, and men are expected to demonstrate their masculinity through their capacity to command sexual access to 'desirable' female bodies".



Ba (1981)[217] suggests that early sexual experience is common among urbanised youth, using data from French West Africa. Sexual games played in childhood rapidly change into monetarised relationships, which would be tacitly accepted by society.

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From a link I posted in Genitalia on the Forehead....

It is HAPPENING MUCH more NOW.

And God is allowing it to HAPPEN but the PENALTY will come DUE LATER.

For me, that's FINE.

Not because of the AGE DIFFERNCE but OLDER MEN KILLING the WEALTH and HOLDING (STANGLING) IT for the YOUNGER GENERATION of MEN for their FAMILY. IT BECOMES A VICIOUS CYCLE. And allowing this to OCCUR more FREQUENT in their FAVOR or UNDERTANDING.

That is what I am referring to. The LATER is MANIFESTING ALREADY with THIS ARTICLE announce.

Only DISCERNMENT can SEE such MATTERS.

I AM NOT JUSTIFIED.

ALSO, I AM NOT WORRIED. Just putting my VIEW or OPINION on things that is ALL like anyone ELSE.

omowalejabali
06-11-2006, 12:30 PM
Sugar Daddies(=Vol. II, §14.2.1.1) [up] [Contents] [Geographic Index] [Ethnographic Index]


Typical of Sub-Saharan Africa (Uganda, Malawi, Kenya, Ethiopia, Botswana, Zimbabwe, Nigeria, Tanzania[208], South Africa) and the Caribbean (Jamaica), the "sugar daddy"[209] syndrome, refers to older, relatively wealthy men who engage adolescents in sexual relationships. Schoolgirls find sugar daddies to pay school fees, etc. (Van Haren, 1999[210]; Sellix, 1996[211]; Bledsoe 1990[212]; Meekers and Calvès, 1997[213] and refs.).



Authors[214] have argued against an essentialist concept of "sugared" relationships as unilateral and coercive. Silberschmidt and Rasch (2001)[215] observed that older adolescent girls are normally seen as victims and easy preys of older and married men's sexual exploitation. However, the article was to suggest that these girls are "not only victims but also willing preys and active social agents engaging in high-risk sexual behaviour" with old males (relationships called mpenzi). Discussing these abusive patterns within the "more diffuse forms of sexual economic exchange", Johnson[216] recently argued that



"[t]here are thus many situations in which both adults and children are legally and socially considered capable of giving meaningful sexual consent despite being massively disadvantaged in relation to their sexual partner in terms of socio-economic power. It follows, then, that the Sugar Daddy does not usually need to distort social agreed ideas about childhood or sexual consent in order to rationalise a sexual relationship with a teenage girl. Nor can his motivations necessarily be described as aberrant. In many cultures, youthful female bodies are considered sexually desirable, and men are expected to demonstrate their masculinity through their capacity to command sexual access to 'desirable' female bodies".



Ba (1981)[217] suggests that early sexual experience is common among urbanised youth, using data from French West Africa. Sexual games played in childhood rapidly change into monetarised relationships, which would be tacitly accepted by society.

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From a link I posted in Genitalia on the Forehead....

It is HAPPENING MUCH more NOW.

And God is allowing it to HAPPEN but the PENALTY will come DUE LATER.

For me, that's FINE.

Not because of the AGE DIFFERNCE but OLDER MEN KILLING the WEALTH and HOLDING (STANGLING) IT for the YOUNGER GENERATION of MEN for their FAMILY. IT BECOMES A VICIOUS CYCLE. And allowing this to OCCUR more FREQUENT in their FAVOR or UNDERTANDING.

That is what I am referring to. The LATER is MANIFESTING ALREADY with THIS ARTICLE announce.

Only DISCERNMENT can SEE such MATTERS.

I AM NOT JUSTIFIED.

ALSO, I AM NOT WORRIED. Just putting my VIEW or OPINION on things that is ALL like anyone ELSE.


Are you familiar with the concept of "horizontal violence"?

Are you aware how this "horizontal violence" manifests in the Black community?

PLAYA HATIN' is a "culture" among Black YOUTH....

dustyelbow
06-11-2006, 12:51 PM
Are you familiar with the concept of "horizontal violence"?

Are you aware how this "horizontal violence" manifests in the Black community?

PLAYA HATIN' is a "culture" among Black YOUTH....

Is it with the 'I GOT MINES' talk?

Otherwise I am happy 'YOU GOT YOURS' but dont be suprised when your DESCENDANTS say you CURSED US and why YOU DID NOT DO ANYTHING about the HELL we are LIVING. It has BECOME HELL EVERYWHERE they will SAY.

Oh well.

dustyelbow
06-11-2006, 12:54 PM
Can I really say that my ANCESTORS made it hell if I am alive today thanks to them.

They wanted to go back to Africa not make America into HELL. The only thing they left for US was how to LIVE under OPPRESSION and to have HOPE.

If I am alive today it WORKS.

Why add my own destructive WAYS I just LEARNED in this WORLD to this principle?

That's it.

omowalejabali
06-11-2006, 01:05 PM
Is it with the 'I GOT MINES' talk?

Otherwise I am happy 'YOU GOT YOURS' but dont be suprised when your DESCENDANTS say you CURSED US and why YOU DID NOT DO ANYTHING about the HELL we are LIVING. It has BECOME HELL EVERYWHERE they will SAY.

Oh well.

What are you talking about?

I have spent over 20 years teaching/mentoring youth while witnessing so many who destroy each other caught up in gang violence. If you are living in hell do you take any responsibility for the hell you are creating?

When older gang leaders such as Tookie Williams and Bo Taylor call for peace but "baby g's" say ***** THAT then do those same "baby g's" take any responsibility for breaking the truces brokered by their elder "OG's"?

Now you wanna blame older men because younger women cant relate to your wanna be gangsta personna and your lack of style and inability to find a decent job because you cant hold a conversation past "Holla at'cha boi"?

be 4 you can pull yourself up by your "bootstraps" now you need to first pull up ypur pants learn how to walk str8 with ya headz up and blame urself for ur own weak game if ya losin it....aight!

dustyelbow
06-11-2006, 01:38 PM
What are you talking about?

I have spent over 20 years teaching/mentoring youth while witnessing so many who destroy each other caught up in gang violence. If you are living in hell do you take any responsibility for the hell you are creating?

When older gang leaders such as Tookie Williams and Bo Taylor call for peace but "baby g's" say ***** THAT then do those same "baby g's" take any responsibility for breaking the truces brokered by their elder "OG's"?

Now you wanna blame older men because younger women cant relate to your wanna be gangsta personna and your lack of style and inability to find a decent job because you cant hold a conversation past "Holla at'cha boi"?

be 4 you can pull yourself up by your "bootstraps" now you need to first pull up ypur pants learn how to walk str8 with ya headz up and blame urself for ur own weak game if ya losin it....aight!


If you are living in hell do you take any responsibility for the hell you are creating?
Want a taste of what HELL will be for the NEXT GENERATION.

It's happening NOW.

I will hopefully put it SIMPLE.

HELL is a lack of PREPARATION for the WORLD to COME.

Ok so, my generation decides to take anything any everything this land had at AFFORDABLE prices.

I just got out the military and the GOVERNMENT gives me a GI BILL for me to LIVE in the SUBURBS built by BUSINESS and GOVERNMENT.

I am a poor BLACK living in SHANTYTOWN with no CONVIENCES running water electricity etc, then the GOVERNMENT with BUSINESS all of a SUDDEN say move off this WHICH IS LAND LEGALLY YOURS for PUBLIC HOUSING. That's the TRADE OFF.

DECADES LATER.
Its your THIRD generation from the TIME these DECISIONS have HAPPEN. Things are REALLY EXPENSIVE. BUYING A HOUSE IS EXPENSIVE.
YOUR WIFE and YOURSELF are WORKING TWO OR MORE JOBS TO KEEP UP.
NO TIME FOR YOUR FAMILY.

BEFORE ALL YOU NEEDED WAS YOUR HIGH SCHOOL OR LESS TO GET A DECENT JOB TO COVER EVERYTHING.

NOW YOU NEED A COLLEGE DEGREE and MORE to do that.

TODAY BUSINESSES have moved overseas DUE TO ENORMOUS PLUDERING OF RESOURCES and PUTTING A PRICE on EVERYTHING with the GOVERNMENT.

JOBS have LESS VALUE, LESS PAY, LESS BENEFITS.

HELL STARTING ALREADY.

PUBLIC HOUSING has A LONG WAIT LIST to GET for a POOR BLACK SINGLE MOTHER. She has TWO CHILDREN. FATHER IS NOT IN THE PICTURE. SHE WORKS TWO OR MORE JOBS. NO TIME FOR YOUR CHILDREN.

LOCAL SCHOOLS ARE GIVING INADEQUATE EDUCATION FOR TODAY'S WORLD.

BEING POOR ALL YOU CAN AFFORD TO EAT are POOR NUTRITION FOODS. Like FAST FOOD.

YOUNG GIRLS NOT INTERESTED IN COOKING with THOUGHT for FAMILY.

THEY DONT HAVE THE TIME OR SKILL. (MEN are not COOKING EITHER but I AM USING THIS AS AN EXAMPLE OF SOCIETAL EXPECTATIONS)

MICROWAVE IS THE EASY WAY TO GO.

YOUNG MEN DONT UNDERSTAND THEY ARE TARGETTED FOR EXTERMINATION IN THE CRIMINAL JUSTICE SYSTEM.

BUT IF YOU GO BACK TWO GENERATIONS and THESE PEOPLE ARE STILL ALIVE they ARE LIVING WELL OFF SOCIAL SECURITY, GOVERNMENT BENEFITS, BIG INCOMES etc

THEIR EXPECTATION AND HOPE IS BETTER. THEIR DECISIONS ROBBED THE YOUNGER GENERATION.

While MYSELF DONT HAVE ANY OF THESE OPTIONS.

TELL ME WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR MAKING IT HELL.

Myself or a previous GENERATION.

I AM STRUGGLING TO MAKE ENDS MEET WHILE I DONT HAVE THE PROPER TIME TO THINK and HOPEFULLY PRAY.

If that is not HELL I dont know what IS.

Fortunately for me, thank God, I somehow am ALIVE and STILL HAVE HOPE.

I do not let THESE THINGS destroy the PRINCIPLES that my POOR ANCESTORS left for ME to LIVE and GROW.

I am not JUSTIFIED and I DO WANT TO SEE OTHERS DO WELL. POOR and RICH people be HAPPY and CONTENT.

But instead of SINCERE HAPPINESS from OTHERS, I SEE GREAT ANGER, RESENTMENT, JEALOUSIES CONFUSION even if they have a MILLION DOLLARS or NOTHING in their POCKET.

It a strong PATTERN, that is HAPPENING NOW.

That is a living HELL to me.

$$RICH$$
06-11-2006, 11:00 PM
We as people young and old have been living in this for many years
it just didn't start now, this been going on so long we nearly can't count
back to it's very existance .

Often then none we have been labled at birth into poverty and have oppression
we all have to uplift ourselves to rise from these conditions , our youth today is
destroying the next upcoming generation i agree that that jealousy and greed
hating and a number of other things like mental slavery has divided us into a
hole but by no means have older men made such destruction or through child birth.

omowalejabali
06-11-2006, 11:02 PM
Want a taste of what HELL will be for the NEXT GENERATION.

It's happening NOW.

I will hopefully put it SIMPLE.

HELL is a lack of PREPARATION for the WORLD to COME.

Ok so, my generation decides to take anything any everything this land had at AFFORDABLE prices.

I just got out the military and the GOVERNMENT gives me a GI BILL for me to LIVE in the SUBURBS built by BUSINESS and GOVERNMENT.

I am a poor BLACK living in SHANTYTOWN with no CONVIENCES running water electricity etc, then the GOVERNMENT with BUSINESS all of a SUDDEN say move off this WHICH IS LAND LEGALLY YOURS for PUBLIC HOUSING. That's the TRADE OFF.

DECADES LATER.
Its your THIRD generation from the TIME these DECISIONS have HAPPEN. Things are REALLY EXPENSIVE. BUYING A HOUSE IS EXPENSIVE.
YOUR WIFE and YOURSELF are WORKING TWO OR MORE JOBS TO KEEP UP.
NO TIME FOR YOUR FAMILY.

BEFORE ALL YOU NEEDED WAS YOUR HIGH SCHOOL OR LESS TO GET A DECENT JOB TO COVER EVERYTHING.

NOW YOU NEED A COLLEGE DEGREE and MORE to do that.

TODAY BUSINESSES have moved overseas DUE TO ENORMOUS PLUDERING OF RESOURCES and PUTTING A PRICE on EVERYTHING with the GOVERNMENT.

JOBS have LESS VALUE, LESS PAY, LESS BENEFITS.

HELL STARTING ALREADY.

PUBLIC HOUSING has A LONG WAIT LIST to GET for a POOR BLACK SINGLE MOTHER. She has TWO CHILDREN. FATHER IS NOT IN THE PICTURE. SHE WORKS TWO OR MORE JOBS. NO TIME FOR YOUR CHILDREN.

LOCAL SCHOOLS ARE GIVING INADEQUATE EDUCATION FOR TODAY'S WORLD.

BEING POOR ALL YOU CAN AFFORD TO EAT are POOR NUTRITION FOODS. Like FAST FOOD.

YOUNG GIRLS NOT INTERESTED IN COOKING with THOUGHT for FAMILY.

THEY DONT HAVE THE TIME OR SKILL. (MEN are not COOKING EITHER but I AM USING THIS AS AN EXAMPLE OF SOCIETAL EXPECTATIONS)

MICROWAVE IS THE EASY WAY TO GO.

YOUNG MEN DONT UNDERSTAND THEY ARE TARGETTED FOR EXTERMINATION IN THE CRIMINAL JUSTICE SYSTEM.

BUT IF YOU GO BACK TWO GENERATIONS and THESE PEOPLE ARE STILL ALIVE they ARE LIVING WELL OFF SOCIAL SECURITY, GOVERNMENT BENEFITS, BIG INCOMES etc

THEIR EXPECTATION AND HOPE IS BETTER. THEIR DECISIONS ROBBED THE YOUNGER GENERATION.

While MYSELF DONT HAVE ANY OF THESE OPTIONS.

TELL ME WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR MAKING IT HELL.

Myself or a previous GENERATION.

I AM STRUGGLING TO MAKE ENDS MEET WHILE I DONT HAVE THE PROPER TIME TO THINK and HOPEFULLY PRAY.

If that is not HELL I dont know what IS.

Fortunately for me, thank God, I somehow am ALIVE and STILL HAVE HOPE.

I do not let THESE THINGS destroy the PRINCIPLES that my POOR ANCESTORS left for ME to LIVE and GROW.

I am not JUSTIFIED and I DO WANT TO SEE OTHERS DO WELL. POOR and RICH people be HAPPY and CONTENT.

But instead of SINCERE HAPPINESS from OTHERS, I SEE GREAT ANGER, RESENTMENT, JEALOUSIES CONFUSION even if they have a MILLION DOLLARS or NOTHING in their POCKET.

It a strong PATTERN, that is HAPPENING NOW.

That is a living HELL to me.


"TELL ME WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR MAKING IT HELL"

ANSWER:

"FATHER IS NOT IN THE PICTURE"..

case closed...
:fyi:

Radical Faith
06-12-2006, 12:40 PM
Brother it seems like you are venting about perhaps what you are going through. Be encouraged brother, you will not stay down forever. Here are some realities we must face that will help us...


1. From the time we landed on this rock we have not been given anything but a hard way to go. Everything we have we had to fight for. No one we give us anything, not even a break. Be prepared to take what you need and want nothing is promised to you...


2. The maxium effective range of an excuse is zero meters. No matter what the reasons for failure are the fact still remains that we have failed. No one will sypathize with us for longer than a second. Take your failures and learn from them. Focus on the solution and instead of the obstacle. Giving up is not an option.


3. Whenever you are unwilling to do something you eliminate your opportunies. This means ever time we say "I ain't or I can't or I won't do that" we narrow our field of choice. Doing something illegal is not a choice.


Brother like you my father did not equip me in every aspect of my development and nor did his father equip him. I learned many life lessons the hard way and I'm still learning. I am not a rich man, I do not have a college degree, I face the same pressures in life as every black man. I don't have a lot but I have enough. I can't say a lot of things about myself but I say this. I have a home, I have food in my house, I have air, heat and electricity, I have clean, unworn clothes to wear, I have everything I need and a lot of what I want, the same can be said of everyone that resides in my house. I could not always say these things. Infact at one point I almost could say none of these things. I am not old but I have been through a lot. I have been hungry, I have been homeless, I have been cold in the winter and hot in the summer, I have been in the dark, I have been ragged. I am grateful for what I have. As grown men at some point we must stop throwing a pity party for ourselves, stop using as our shortcomings as a crutch and change our circumstances. A man will either accept his reality and not change or change his reality and progress. No ammount of complaining will solve anything. I have been there and done that. Brother if I can do it so can you. Plan, listen to your elder and be patient. Set goals for what you need to accomplish each year and go for them. After five years look back at where you were and see where you are. This stragedy worked for me and it can work for you too.


Peace.....

dustyelbow
06-13-2006, 12:07 PM
Brother like you my father did not equip me in every aspect of my development and nor did his father equip him. I learned many life lessons the hard way and I'm still learning. I am not a rich man, I do not have a college degree, I face the same pressures in life as every black man. I don't have a lot but I have enough. I can't say a lot of things about myself but I say this. I have a home, I have food in my house, I have air, heat and electricity, I have clean, unworn clothes to wear, I have everything I need and a lot of what I want, the same can be said of everyone that resides in my house. I could not always say these things. Infact at one point I almost could say none of these things. I am not old but I have been through a lot. I have been hungry, I have been homeless, I have been cold in the winter and hot in the summer, I have been in the dark, I have been ragged. I am grateful for what I have. As grown men at some point we must stop throwing a pity party for ourselves, stop using as our shortcomings as a crutch and change our circumstances. A man will either accept his reality and not change or change his reality and progress. No ammount of complaining will solve anything. I have been there and done that. Brother if I can do it so can you. Plan, listen to your elder and be patient. Set goals for what you need to accomplish each year and go for them. After five years look back at where you were and see where you are. This stragedy worked for me and it can work for you too.

This is great. I too had to face my obstacles and still do. I am grateful for what I have receive and I am grateful too also to GIVE. If we do a case study on brothers in your situation and similar, I would say I probably will not find too much disasters waiting to happen. STABILITY. Brothers and sisters are out there like you but unfortunately many of our own do not see the SUCCESS that I see with you.

Although I dont keep track of time as this year I will do this and that year I will do that, I just follow principle even in my most difficult time and it works just like that of our ancestors.

With this older man and younger woman I am not against their union. I am just demonstrating that the wealth held by older men is killing the aspiration of younger men.

Is this a faithful saying?

2 Corinthians 12:14
Behold, the third time I am ready to come to you; and I will not be burdensome to you: for I seek not your's but you: for the children ought not to lay up for the parents, but the parents for the children.


or if you dont like Bible stuff (sometimes I dont) but common sense

Carter G. Woodson credits his father for influencing the course of his life. His father, he later wrote, insisted that "learning to accept insult, to compromise on principle, to mislead your fellow man (or woman), or to betray your people, is to lose your soul."


I DONT WANT ANYONE TO LOSE THEIR SOUL.

Carter G. Woodson -
The accounts of the successful strivings of Negroes for enlightenment under most adverse circumstances reads like beautiful romances of a people in an heroic age.

This is how I see us and you.

jamesfrmphilly
06-13-2006, 12:28 PM
I am just demonstrating that the wealth held by older men is killing the aspiration of younger men.

that might be true in a closed system but our system is open ended.
this also assumes that older black men are wealthy.
around here most older brothers are quite poor.
furthermore, young females are totally against mating with older men, trust me, i know.

these statements you make are not based in any reality that i am aware of.

dustyelbow
06-13-2006, 04:34 PM
that might be true in a closed system but our system is open ended.
this also assumes that older black men are wealthy.
around here most older brothers are quite poor.
furthermore, young females are totally against mating with older men, trust me, i know.


these statements you make are not based in any reality that i am aware of.

Let me put it this way.

In the record industry, who control it in terms of distrubution, SELECTION, who gets SUPPORT etc.

Old men and for the most part they are white and lesser part black. But this PENALTY isnt RACE based.

In the corporate world, who control most companies own stock etc.

Old men.

In real estate who owns most of the property.

Old men.

In political positions of AUTHORITY?

Old men.

Who will be getting Social Security until its dismantle for good?

Old men. I am told that it will not be there for my generation.

So I am paying which I dont mind to support old men who did not possible pay hardly


They decide who will get wealth. I can have the mightiest idea on the planet to make money but that money comes from the most part old men and if not from old men its their INHERITANCE that I am recieving through their sons daughters etc.

Women are still fighting for ACCEPTANCE in industry which is controlled by the SELECTIVE process of OLD MEN.

These Old Men appear to have no COMMON SENSE.

They are KILLING the wealth of those who DO NOT HAVE.


It much worse than we all REALIZE.

But I am not WORRIED.

jamesfrmphilly
06-13-2006, 05:11 PM
if you want to complain about old white men, i'll join you.
i'm an old black man. don't you see a difference?
if not, we have other fish to fry.

dustyelbow
06-13-2006, 07:15 PM
if you want to complain about old white men, i'll join you.
i'm an old black man. don't you see a difference?
if not, we have other fish to fry.

If that is your picture I see, but I dont see many old black men discussing matters like this. Your an exception. Its a big NO TALK with old black men with creature comforts. I have a better chance to have a longer conversation about my life with the ladies then something like this.

But I dont deny and try to engage old black man knowledgable about other things than common talk such as religion, music, ladies, sports, the youth, etc.

I have met a less than a handful of old black men on the poor to no educational level who have some nuggets of information for me to search on and made me think.

jamesfrmphilly
06-14-2006, 08:22 AM
i don't know where you live but in philly many of my generation are still trying to be progressive.
when i was a young man i spent all my money on women.
when i became older i put my money into property.
this generated what ever wealth i now have.
i worked for mine.

there is nothing to stop a young man from doing the same.

MississippiRed
06-14-2006, 12:36 PM
Dusty man if it wasn't for older Black men I wouldn't know anything....not even half of what I know now.....so I have no idea where you are or where you're coming from but that is not my experience concerning older Black men.......my Daddy that adopted me did so when he was 56 57, so as I grew I grew up around his potnas and they were all as old or older than him and I soaked up most of what they tried to give me and there was a time when I thought I knew everything but them cats hipped me to a lot of knowledge about life all facets of it and like I said above if not for older Black men I wouldn't know much of anything.......one thing I will say at least concerning the cats I knew and know now....they won't tell you anything if you come at them wrong or if there's something about you they don't like or trust......or if they figure you ain't gonna listen anyway.......I got nothing but love for the older Brothers man.......


MississippiRed

dustyelbow
06-14-2006, 07:09 PM
I am not trying to discredit old black men entirely. I know if I meet old black men making incomes leaning towards middle and upper classes, I can talk about a few more things more than a poverty or surrounded by poverty old black men but not enough for me to think about.

Black children need to know about MONEY MATTERS. They are not getting this message for the MOST PART. Who is responsible for this. Old men with WEALTH or old men without WEALTH and denied WEALTH for not being considered CHOICE.

Youth all over are getting the message of HUSTLING.

HUSTLING to me means that YOU HAVE TO CONVIENCE SOMEBODY OF YOUR WORTH to give you SO and SO.

I have no problem with this.

That means to me the WEALTH has been strangled (killed) by SOMEBODY.

ANd like in the past and now it's OLD MEN.

Things were AFFORDABLE then and NOW are EXPENSIVE is not our YOUTH's fault ENTIRELY.

So I can see where we this "I GOT MINES" attitude comes from.

And if you have WEALTH you tend to be MANIPULATIVE with IT.

And if you MISUSE something you TEND to AB-USE it.

But things keep going until the PENALTY comes DUE.

And now we see the PENALTY not for a SELECT FEW but FOR ALL.

Oh well.

Even though most WEALTH in this world was GIVEN or what we are WITNESSING TAKEN (MANIPULATION) for the most PART.

jamesfrmphilly
06-14-2006, 08:42 PM
your analysis of the situation is correct but your analysis of the cause is off.
the situation is due to wealthy white people manipulating the economy.
why don't you direct your anger toward them?

PoeticManifesta
06-14-2006, 10:35 PM
Man you ever see the offspring of two old ppl... or of one old parent?
The kids always look like they one foot in the nursing homes themselves..
all messed up i swear...
one kid i knew in middle school had dentures cause he had "soft teeth" growin up...
his momma had to buy efferdent for him and his father..lmao
They didnt need a scientific study to show this..
it was apparent to me since elementart school..
who you thought they invented them "your momma so old..." jokes for... certainly not the normal kids!:angel:

jamesfrmphilly
06-14-2006, 10:51 PM
ageism is alive and well i see........

FLATFOOTFLOOGIE
06-16-2006, 12:07 PM
Sins of the FATHER visited on the SONS.

Genetic Quality of Sperm Deteriorates as Men Age
06.06.06, 12:00 AM ET

TUESDAY, June 6 (HealthDay News) -- A pioneering study has found specific genetic defects in the sperm of older men.

The results suggest that, like women, some men who wait to become fathers raise the risk of passing on certain diseases to their children.

But Andrew J. Wyrobek, lead author of the report and a senior medical biophysicist at the Lawrence Livermore National Laboratory, in California, cautioned that the findings are preliminary because the study was based on just a few tests, one of them developed as recently as this year.

Still, the discovery has endless possibilities, he added.

"This opens up a whole line of research," Wyrobek said. "We have looked at a few genes out of many hundreds. We need tests for those other genes to look at their function as affected by age."

The findings appear in this week's issue of the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.

It has been known that offspring of older fathers are more likely to suffer from conditions such as schizophrenia and achondroplasia, a form of dwarfism, the journal report said. The study enlisted 97 men, aged 22 to 80, from two locations -- the Livermore, Calif., area and Baltimore, the home of Johns Hopkins University, whose researchers participated in the trial.

Many of the findings found no link between birth defects and the sperm of older men. For instance, there was no increase in the incidence of multiple or missing chromosomes that cause Down syndrome and several other genetic conditions. But there was an increase in gene mutations that can lead to achondroplasia and Apert syndrome, which causes malformation of the skull.

Conventional measurements of sperm quantity, such as sperm count and mobility, were not related to the genetic abnormalities, the researchers found.

One intriguing discovery involved a difference in some of the genetic defects, depending on where the men lived. The California group consisted largely of middle-class whites, while the Baltimore group included many inner-city residents. "In the inner city people from Baltimore, we found an age effect that we did not find in California," Wyrobek said.

That finding, he said, "raises the question of whether things that affect the aging process differ among people with different backgrounds, such as income," he said.

Dr. Ethylin Wang Jabs, a professor of pediatric genetics at Johns Hopkins and a member of the research team, said, "We think some of the mutations or changes we are studying could be caused by environmental effects."

There might also be an economic cause for the differences, Jabs said, "but I would be cautious about this because our numbers were small."

The study could help resolve a running debate about the effect of age on the genetic quality of sperm, Wyrobek said. "There have been some studies here or there that look at a single endpoint," he said. "In one person they might find a change, in the next person they might not find it."

What the study shows is that as they grow older, "a small fraction of men are at risk for transmitting multiple genetic and chromosomal defects," the report concluded.

More information

For more on birth defects, visit the March of Dimes.

Fool mode...

Since older men hold more WEALTH than younger men on AVERAGE.

Really FAR ABOVE AVERAGE.

With many young women looking for SECURITY in the form of SOCIAL STATUS and FAMILY PURPOSE.

This type of UNION which is very FREQUENT, and I do considered WRONG not because of the AGE DIFFERENCE but because OLD MEN greedily HOLD and STRANGLED (KILLED) the WEALTH so that there is hardly none for the new YOUNGER generation TODAY to BUILD with, could put the NEXT GENERATION in PHYSICAL JEOPARDY.

Oh well, that what we all get as a WORLD including "ruthless" white.

I am not WORRIED.

Finished
What "old men" are you talking about, Dusty Elbow? Certainly "old" Black men had less wealth than you have today. At a Black website, I don't see how this would apply to Black men, or Black people, sir.

BTW, Old men are no more or less greedy with their wealth and money than younger men... Older men were once younger men, so is it your postulation that as young men get older, they are more prone to be greedy and horde than they were when younger? Where is your proof? You sound like a young man who is insecure about becoming older...

NNQueen
06-16-2006, 12:38 PM
Hi Flatfootfloogie and welcome to Destee.com :wave:

You make some valid points. Let's hope the younger among us here are paying attention. One thing is for sure, at best they can hope to live long enough to see the error in their thinking.

Peace,
Queenie :spinstar:

Destee
06-16-2006, 12:50 PM
Brother DustyElbow ... what does the deterioration of an elder man's sperm have to do with him holding on to his money, or giving it to whomever he pleases?

I'm kinda lost.

The article is about deteriorating sperm. With the passing of time, the entire body ultimately deteriorates.

I can't see the link tying these two separate issues together.

:heart:

Destee

dustyelbow
06-16-2006, 03:52 PM
Brother DustyElbow ... what does the deterioration of an elder man's sperm have to do with him holding on to his money, or giving it to whomever he pleases?

I'm kinda lost.

The article is about deteriorating sperm. With the passing of time, the entire body ultimately deteriorates.

I can't see the link tying these two separate issues together.

:heart:

Destee

Destee simple principal.

Something must DIE in order for something to LIVE.

Killing the LIVING WEALTH means HANDICAPPING and EVENTUAL DEATH of the KILLER.

Old men have the most WEALTH. There is very NOTICIBLE.

That is all.

dustyelbow
06-16-2006, 03:53 PM
Do you think eating poor extended SHELFLIFE nutritional foods quickens death faster in a young person than newly FRESH GROWING food with its VITALITY?

Old men killed or misuse the VITALITY for their SAKES.

Thus the PENALTY.

jamesfrmphilly
06-17-2006, 12:17 AM
Something must DIE in order for something to LIVE.


that is the devil speaking.................

dustyelbow
06-18-2006, 10:36 AM
that is the devil speaking.................

If you want to beleive that, that's alright with me.


However if your REBORNED then SIN that OLD MAN must be put to DEATH or SILENCED in order to WALK in the NEWNESS of the SPIRIT.

Death and DYING should have NO STING.

jamesfrmphilly
06-18-2006, 10:59 AM
However if your REBORNED then SIN that OLD MAN must be put to DEATH or SILENCED in order to WALK in the NEWNESS of the SPIRIT.

Death and DYING should have NO STING.
and this is the psychotic speaking..........

dustyelbow
06-18-2006, 11:10 AM
I cant post a new topic

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