Destee

Even when they are negligible in comparison

It's a sign, when Brothers' challenges can't be discussed or resolved, without pointing fingers at Sisters.
You got that right sis.

I also think it's a sign when the same ones that blame the victims for thier own disrepect

.....will cry unto the highest authorities of the land when any HINT of disrespect is shown towards them.


http://destee.com/forums/showthread.php?t=39083

Destee


You got that right sis.

I also think it's a sign when the same ones that blame the victims for thier own disrepect

.....will cry unto the highest authorities of the land when any HINT of disrespect is shown towards them.


http://destee.com/forums/showthread.php?t=39083

Brother Dual ... i don't need you cosign'n and instigate'n ... stop it ... fa real.

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Destee

Destee

Brother Dual ... i don't need you cosign'n and instigate'n ... stop it ... fa real.


I wasn't instigating, I was just agreeing with you and making further points just like Omowale did in this thread:

http://destee.com/forums/showthread.php?t=37659&page=3


Do you consider his statment in references to yours as instigation?


You corrected me in that thread just like you corrected him in this one.

He supported your statement at the time, and I support yours now.

Destee

I wasn't instigating, I was just agreeing with you and making further points just like Omowale did in this thread:

http://destee.com/forums/showthread.php?t=37659&page=3

Do you consider his statment in references to yours as instigation?

You corrected me in that thread just like you corrected him in this one.

He supported your statement at the time, and I support yours now.

Brother Dual ... i considered it instigating. If i had not, i would not have mentioned it above. The fact that you don't think it is instigating, well, doesn't make a whole lot of difference.

I went and read the thread you posted, and No, Brother O's comments in that thread are not instigating. If i thought they were, my post would be in there saying that, as it is in this one now. In addition, that thread was about Members that are disruptive, and it remained on-topic throughout ... unlike what you've done to this one.

You've come into this thread, and attempted to piggy-back off of my comments to Brother O's post, by bringing up some other drama from some other threads. Drama that i have grown tired of.

Brother Dual ... you want to come (have come) into this thread, dragging negativity about another Brother ... when there is rumor about you. As i mentioned before, it's been said you are a previous Member, which you deny. I agree with the rest of the Family, you do appear to be a Dear, Beloved Brother of mine, that i always enjoyed, and broke my heart to ban. Which makes me wonder, did my Brother lie to me?

So yes, before trying to drag up stuff on other folk, your own should be spotless.

i love you Brother Dual ... you know that ... so please stop.

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Destee

Cool.....

Maybe I should stop defending and speaking up for myself period and let anybody who feels like violating and insulting me just do it.
They know they can get away with it and if I attempt to fight back I'll be seen as the bad guy and checked anyway.




Destee

I love you too sis but let me ask you a question.

The brutha that was banned.....

What exactly did he do, kill somebody or threaten somebody?

Did he promote interracial dating or advance white supremacist theories?

What exactly did this man do that so many Black people on a Black site find so offensive that like Satan....he must be uncovered and his head crushed where ever he's found?

Brother Dual ... i moved this discussion to a separate thread, in an attempt to allow that one to breathe freely.

I'll respond to your post above in a moment.

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Destee

Cool.....

Maybe I should stop defending and speaking up for myself period and let anybody who feels like violating and insulting me just do it.
They know they can get away with it and if I attempt to fight back I'll be seen as the bad guy and checked anyway.

Destee

I love you too sis but let me ask you a question.

The brutha that was banned.....

What exactly did he do, kill somebody or threaten somebody?

Did he promote interracial dating or advance white supremacist theories?

What exactly did this man do that so many Black people on a Black site find so offensive that like Satan....he must be uncovered and his head crushed where ever he's found?

Brother Dual ... you are welcome to post in the Violations Forum (http://destee.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=96), any perceived breaking of our rules. You've not done that, so i can't really speak to these violations you're talking about. You've not made any of these official complaints. You're going about this the wrong way. Post a complaint if you feel you've been wronged, but don't go out on this vigilante style justice mission, played out all over the house, because we're not having it.

We try to allow every Member to work out their own issues with other Members, but when it gets to the point that it's disrupting the Spirit of this community, it must be stopped.

I will not go back and forth with you about the rules, how we live, all of that, because i believe you know it already and you're insulting me to continue in this vein. You know exactly why the other Brother was banned, and you know that i gave him warning, after warning, after warning. You also know that i am quite fond of him and his contribution here. You know that i don't want this community to be without him. You know too, that i will not sacrifice the peace we have for any one Member, no matter how much i love them.

I have been on your side since the day you first walked into this community. I enjoy the high energy Spirit you bring to our home, your knowledge on many topics, and your willingness to share that. I've told you all of this before. I have gone out of my way to ignore some of your carrying on, in hopes that you would adjust it without prompting from me. Your being seen as the bad guy, and checked, is no more true for you than any other Member.

Now, in regard to the lie i believe you told me. It's no big deal. It's not murder, just a little disappointment. I believed we had a genuine appreciation and rapport with each other. One that would be honest and true. I'm kinda hurt to find that's not the case ... but it is a hurt that can easily be healed ... with the truth.

Well, truth and courage, both of which you possess.

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Destee

Destee

Understood, and thanx for moving our discussion to this thread....

Hold tight!

I didn't even see this "Violations Forum" until you just pointed out to me and I browsed through it.

Oh boy.....

Since so many have been bent on trying to "expose" me for the past few days maybe I will do a exposing of my own.


Double Thanx for directing me to that forum!

Hold tight!

I didn't even see this "Violations Forum" until you just pointed out to me and I browsed through it.

Oh boy.....

Since so many have been bent on trying to "expose" me for the past few days maybe I will do a exposing of my own.


Double Thanx for directing me to that forum!
expose? like what?

Destee

I will answer Froggy's question and if you think I'm out of order or just "continuing" drama then you're more than welcomed to erase it.



Froggy

expose? like what?

I won't call out their names, but there are group of individuals on this site OTHER than Destee and the moderators who feel it's their duty to "expose" me as a former member who was banned and give me a hard time until I either admit to thier accusation or leave.

Now I have done nothing personally to this individuals besides disagreeing with one or two issues, but apparently my disagreeing with them and having strong opinions about certain issues they hold dear was enough to set them off.

So they basically show thier animosity by ignoring most of the points and issues such as racism and police brutality they may agree with me on....and consistantly point out and challenge me on things they DISAGREE with or find inconsistant in my posting.

You can find several cases in this Open forum alone.

Nearly all of my posts have been opposed or challenged by somebody, and where I say something most agree with....they have been ignored.


Now I find this especially troubling as a Black man coming from other Black men who on one hand preach about unity and brotherhood keeping the family together.
But on the other hand, one or two disagreements can warrant a relentless lifelong assault from them.

Destee

I will answer Froggy's question and if you think I'm out of order or just "continuing" drama then you're more than welcomed to erase it.



Froggy



I won't call out their names, but there are group of individuals on this site OTHER than Destee and the moderators who feel it's their duty to "expose" me as a former member who was banned and give me a hard time until I either admit to thier accusation or leave.

Now I have done nothing personally to this individuals besides disagreeing with one or two issues, but apparently my disagreeing with them and having strong opinions about certain issues they hold dear was enough to set them off.

So they basically show thier animosity by ignoring most of the points and issues such as racism and police brutality they may agree with me on....and consistantly point out and challenge me on things they DISAGREE with or find inconsistant in my posting.

You can find several cases in this Open forum alone.

Nearly all of my posts have been opposed or challenged by somebody, and where I say something most agree with....they have been ignored.


Now I find this especially troubling as a Black man coming from other Black men who on one hand preach about unity and brotherhood keeping the family together.
But on the other hand, one or two disagreements can warrant a relentless lifelong assault from them.
wow, thats crazy, well i havent been on this stie in a logn time so ill check otu waht your saying a little later, but on a happier note









HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Froggy

Happy New Year Bro...lol.

Froggy

Happy New Year Bro...lol.
BTW, since you seem to be the militant type, i think youd like my superhero story ive been making in the story section

Destee


You got that right sis.

I also think it's a sign when the same ones that blame the victims for thier own disrepect

.....will cry unto the highest authorities of the land when any HINT of disrespect is shown towards them.


http://destee.com/forums/showthread.php?t=39083

Why is it that a post directed to me in one thread is being used in another thread as a topic of discussion and why is this attention focused on me when I am not part of this discussion??

Wow..


I must conclude some folks was right after all.


Later..

it is now a nu year.

i'm calling on U brothers to step up to da plate and DROP IT ALL like it's hot.
someone is going to have to be BIGGGER than that.
take one fo da team and such.

i don't know who right and i don't care.

i just want it all dropped starting now.
i love U all and i do not want to watch this mess any more.
we will never de feet da white man with brothers hissin at each other.

just drop it, please!!!


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Brother Omowale ... your name is in this because it all started from a quote of yours i responded to. It took that thread off-topic, so i made this discussion, between Brother Dual and i a separate thread. You're in it, but not really.

Brother James ... it's not the Brothers arguing in this thread, it's Brother Dual and i talking.

Brother Dual ... i'm still waiting for you to respond specifically to my concern in this post (http://destee.com/forums/showpost.php?p=384628&postcount=7). I need to know what our future will be based on. This has nothing to do with anyone else, just you and i.

Thanks.

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Destee