I am not fully aware of the policy of the forum but if members offense the females of the forum can they be banned?

Ralfa’il posts are insulting to the female members of this forum. Many posters disagree with his opinion, he resorts to sexist and insulting remarks. I would like Ralfa’il to be banned.

I am not fully aware of the policy of the forum but if members offense the females of the forum can they be banned?

Ralfa’il posts are insulting to the female members of this forum. Many posters disagree with his opinion, he resorts to sexist and insulting remarks. I would like Ralfa’il to be banned.

Sister Kwango ... i agree ... he has been banned (http://destee.com/forums/showpost.php?p=336861&postcount=158).

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Destee

Sister Destee, I hope Ralfa'il realize now how "Strong" you are!

Ralfa’il couldn’t continue to make sexist comments like that. A man posting in a forum runs by a woman has to be respectful of women. You warned him several times, and he persisted. He is not a good individual for this Black community. I appreciate your approach Destee! Men cannot talk to us that way.

I was just curious as to what he had said that was offensive and caused him to get banned.

I was just curious as to what he had said that was offensive and caused him to get banned.

He insulted Kwango.

I am not fully aware of the policy of the forum but if members offense the females of the forum can they be banned?

Ralfa’il posts are insulting to the female members of this forum. Many posters disagree with his opinion, he resorts to sexist and insulting remarks. I would like Ralfa’il to be banned.

Sister Kwango, do you mean to tell me that with the level of patience that we ALL exercise with your dictatorial behavior, your constant demeaning comments about our alleged ignorance, that a comment such as the one made by Ralfail offended you so that you would want him banned??????(smile!)

If one does not agree with almighty Queen Kwango, she never fails to call folk out of their names, because none of us was named "ignorant" by our mothers, yet none has advocated she be banned... For all of the weight you toss around here sister, I think you should be woman enough to "take the weight" in return...

I can go now to the Pan AFrican Forum, and catalogue your crimes, and index all of your sins, but **** if I got all the time it would require... You have a helluva nerve, and I just want you to know that you got one more time to call me a name other than Isaiah, and I'm gonna light your behind up... I'm tired of so-called adults who can rake others over the coals, but come crying that others should be banned when they come under some heat...

In fact, you should be banned for the way you sometimes carry on when folks disagree with you... No one calls for your banning... We simply move on to the next episode... None is this alll that serious, sister... Ease up, and maybe you wont have so many problems interfacing with others...

Peace!
Isaiah

Sister Kwango, do you mean to tell me that with the level of patience that we ALL exercise with your dictatorial behavior, your constant demeaning comments about our alleged ignorance, that a comment such as the one made by Ralfail offended you so that you would want him banned??????(smile!)

If one does not agree with almighty Queen Kwango, she never fails to call folk out of their names, because none of us was named "ignorant" by our mothers, yet none has advocated she be banned... For all of the weight you toss around here sister, I think you should be woman enough to "take the weight" in return...

I can go now to the Pan AFrican Forum, and catalogue your crimes, and index all of your sins, but **** if I got all the time it would require... You have a helluva nerve, and I just want you to know that you got one more time to call me a name other than Isaiah, and I'm gonna light your behind up... I'm tired of so-called adults who can rake others over the coals, but come crying that others should be banned when they come under some heat...

In fact, you should be banned for the way you sometimes carry on when folks disagree with you... No one calls for your banning... We simply move on to the next episode... None is this alll that serious, sister... Ease up, and maybe you wont have so many problems interfacing with others...

Peace!
Isaiah



Agreed with this to the fullest considering how she would insult someone, with remarks such as "slave" or "brainwash" when they don't agree with her view of what is "African". Even though Ralf's comments go over board sometimes, I also enjoy hearing his opinions on many issues but because the "Queen" disagrees with him, he should be banned. If that's the case, then the same reasoning should be applied to you, the way you have come at members on this board. The "Destee" forum doesn't revolve around you Ms. Kwango. People are going to disagree with you on certain issues, the mature thing to do is agree to disagree and move on and if you continue to clash with that same person, then just make a conscious descision to not communicate with them while you're on line but calling for a member to be banned is ridiculous and kind of self-centered. I could see if the brotha was a disrupt to "Black Unity" but he's not, his opinions just differ from many at this forum even though his intentions mean well..

I actually wish Destee would reconsider his membership. The 2 week rule seem fair in my opinion.

Samurai and Sekhemu look to be back (unbanned)
but Ralfa'il is not...Shouldn't Ralf's banishment be up by now ?
Even though I didn't agree with alot of his opinions, I respect
his right to hold them and he always posted thought provoking
threads; I hope he returns.

God's Peace ~

Samurai and Sekhemu look to be back (unbanned)
but Ralfa'il is not...Shouldn't Ralf's banishment be up by now ?
Even though I didn't agree with alot of his opinions, I respect
his right to hold them and he always posted thought provoking
threads; I hope he returns.

God's Peace ~

Ralfa'il's banning (a suspension is a more appropriate term) was only for a two week period, as were Sekhemu and Samurai's. If he chooses to return, he will be allowed to this week.

Ralfa'il's banning (a suspension is a more appropriate term) was only for a two week period, as were Sekhemu and Samurai's. If he chooses to return, he will be allowed to this week.

Kewl...... :shades:

Kewl...... :shades:

Actually Ralf'il has had his banning (suspension) removed...he can come back whenever he wishes.

Actually Ralf'il has had his banning (suspension) removed...he can come back whenever he wishes.

That's unfortunate, since the behavior that got him banned in the first place has not ceased.

Can someone address this? PLEASE??

PEACE

I would like to know who was Ralf referring to when call called a member Samurai's wife, he even admitted it was an insult, can we find out please?

I would like to know who was Ralf referring to when call called a member Samurai's wife, he even admitted it was an insult, can we find out please?


The situation is being handled brother, sorry for the inconvienience......

peace

The situation is being handled brother, sorry for the inconvienience......

peace


Thank you brotha Info, I am most gracious.

That's unfortunate, since the behavior that got him banned in the first place has not ceased.

Can someone address this? PLEASE??

PEACE

You are the fierce and intelligent man who is supposed to lead us to the promised land, huh??? You are a JOKE, brother... I would tell you that to your face privately as well as publicly WHEN the chance presents itself...

To act as if you cannot reason with your own brother, to exact revenge upon him in this black-on-black crime like manner tells me that you are a fraud and fake, plain and simple... I have some other creative profanities for you to break down on a word-by-word and sentence-by-sentence basis, but that would secure what you want, which is the banning of Black Men who disagree with your nonsense...

It was you that referred to brother Ralfa'il as a "SAVAGE" on another thread, brother! Dammit, I told you there were no savages in this house, and never once did I call for you to be banned! I dealt respectfully with you when you didn't deserve my respect, or the respect of any of us! This is how a SAVAGE repays the respect he doesnt deserve...

Peace!
Isaiah

You are the fierce and intelligent man who is supposed to lead us to the promised land, huh??? You are a JOKE, brother... I would tell you that to your face privately as well as publicly WHEN the chance presents itself...

To act as if you cannot reason with your own brother, to exact revenge upon him in this black-on-black crime like manner tells me that you are a fraud and fake, plain and simple... I have some other creative profanities for you to break down on a word-by-word and sentence-by-sentence basis, but that would secure what you want, which is the banning of Black Men who disagree with your nonsense...

It was you that referred to brother Ralfa'il as a "SAVAGE" on another thread, brother! Dammit, I told you there were no savages in this house, and never once did I call for you to be banned! I dealt respectfully with you when you didn't deserve my respect, or the respect of any of us! This is how a SAVAGE repays the respect he doesnt deserve...

Peace!
Isaiah

Brother Isaiah ... while i do know that Brother SAMURAI has caused more than his share of disruption in this community, being abrasive and disruptive, while wanting to point out the transgressions of others ... you have done your share as well.

We have a lot of pots calling kettles black, up in here.

You are not innocent Brother. You have had to be warned on more than one occasion as well, when it comes to the respectful treatment of Members here ... and resistant, it seems, to a female (me) calling you on it.

It's amazing to me, that those who are most often involved in the drama, are the ones pointing fingers at those causing drama.

All of this needs to stop.

It's quite juvenile at best ... got me wanting you all to prove that you are over 18! Our teenagers act more mature than some of you!

So please ... quit all of this.

Please.

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Destee

It's amazing to me, that those who are most often involved in the drama, are the ones pointing fingers at those causing drama. DesteeInterestingly, when a finger is pointed in any direction; three fingers of that hand point back at the pointee!!

I haven't seen Ral say anything offensive since his ban was removed.

This is like a good movie you know what character is going to say what. I wish I had gotten to this site earlier this is entertaining I'll say.

Brother Isaiah ... while i do know that Brother SAMURAI has caused more than his share of disruption in this community, being abrasive and disruptive, while wanting to point out the transgressions of others ... you have done your share as well.

We have a lot of pots calling kettles black, up in here.

You are not innocent Brother. You have had to be warned on more than one occasion as well, when it comes to the respectful treatment of Members here ... and resistant, it seems, to a female (me) calling you on it.

It's amazing to me, that those who are most often involved in the drama, are the ones pointing fingers at those causing drama.

All of this needs to stop.

It's quite juvenile at best ... got me wanting you all to prove that you are over 18! Our teenagers act more mature than some of you!

So please ... quit all of this.

Please.

:heart:

Destee


Well, you know what sister, if you think that way of me you know what button to push... I don't give a **** one way of the other... This clown called Ralfa'il a SAVAGE, and no one called for anything to be done about him - and I still have not called for anything to be done about him... I don't call for anything to be done about anyone... We are adults, and if we cannot handle our business as adults, we need to move a step aside..

Now, as for you Destee, Indya appealed to you to address what I said to her, and you did... Where in the hell were you when I called for Mr. Solo to be addressed when he called me a "witless" idiot??? Where were you, sister?? Where??? You jump all out the freakin closet to dare chastize me when someone says I've offended them, and conveniently maintain your silence when I make a similar complaint... Do you think you are fair to me??? Do YOU!
No, you are busy holding your grudges against me because I said you cheap shotted me... Guess what, aint a damned thang happened since to make me doubt that... I still believe that, and aint S#$! you can say to me to change that...

Like I said, you do what you WANT to do, sister... My life will go on...

Peace!
Isaiah

Well, you know what sister, if you think that way of me you know what button to push... I don't give a **** one way of the other... This clown called Ralfa'il a SAVAGE, and no one called for anything to be done about him - and I still have not called for anything to be done about him... I don't call for anything to be done about anyone... We are adults, and if we cannot handle our business as adults, we need to move a step aside..

Now, as for you Destee, Indya appealed to you to address what I said to her, and you did... Where in the hell were you when I called for Mr. Solo to be addressed when he called me a "witless" idiot??? Where were you, sister?? Where??? You jump all out the freakin closet to dare chastize me when someone says I've offended them, and conveniently maintain your silence when I make a similar complaint... Do you think you are fair to me??? Do YOU!
No, you are busy holding your grudges against me because I said you cheap shotted me... Guess what, aint a damned thang happened since to make me doubt that... I still believe that, and aint S#$! you can say to me to change that...

Like I said, you do what you WANT to do, sister... My life will go on...

Peace!
Isaiah

Brother Isaiah ... after you called Sister Indya out of her name, knowing full well it was against our rules, and i came to you asking what could you do to fix it ... you said, and i quote, "Absolutely NOTHING!(smile!) (http://destee.com/forums/showthread.php?t=35395)" ... but when the Brothers came to you with the same request, you at least begrudgingly gave her an apology.

Now, this same woman (me) that you could not adhere to the rules for, you want to know why she is not coming to your aid?!!! It appears that you have no respect for me (or women in general, i don't know), but you want me to respond to your concerns at your beck and call.

If this is what you want Brother Isaiah, then you will have to respect my requests and the rules in all other situations, not just the ones you want me in on. Otherwise, i will continue to let the other Moderators, the Brothers, deal with you, because that is what you seem to prefer ... men.

For the record, though MrSolo has been banned for other reasons now, he never called you a witless idiot. He made a comment, in general, with no one's name attached to it. Now if you want to embrace that comment, claim it as your own, and act accordingly, that's on you. But he did not do that. I encourage you and everyone who is reading this to go back to that post (http://destee.com/forums/showpost.php?p=340504&postcount=34), and see that what i'm saying is true.

Brother Isaiah ... here you are calling folk out for breaking the rules, when you have done this time and time again. I don't understand this behavior. You repeatedly and blatantly broke our rules, calling Sister Indya out of her name with no question about it being directed at her. You acted savagely (http://destee.com/forums/showpost.php?p=335154&postcount=17) toward Sister LibertyLady, who has never done anything to anyone. Yet you want to come here today, and post about what Brother SAMURAI did before he was banned. He has already been banned, since making that SAVAGE comment and it is old news now.

If you have some new complaints about the Brother, please post them, and i'm sure one of the MALE Moderators, which you seem to prefer, will address your concern.

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Destee

Brother Isaiah ... after you called Sister Indya out of her name, knowing full well it was against our rules, and i came to you asking what could you do to fix it ... you said, and i quote, "Absolutely NOTHING!(smile!) (http://destee.com/forums/showthread.php?t=35395)" ... but when the Brothers came to you with the same request, you at least begrudgingly gave her an apology.

Now, this same woman (me) that you could not adhere to the rules for, you want to know why she is not coming to your aid?!!! It appears that you have no respect for me (or women in general, i don't know), but you want me to respond to your concerns at your beck and call.

If this is what you want Brother Isaiah, then you will have to respect my requests and the rules in all other situations, not just the ones you want me in on. Otherwise, i will continue to let the other Moderators, the Brothers, deal with you, because that is what you seem to prefer ... men.

For the record, though MrSolo has been banned for other reasons now, he never called you a witless idiot. He made a comment, in general, with no one's name attached to it. Now if you want to embrace that comment, claim it as your own, and act accordingly, that's on you. But he did not do that. I encourage you and everyone who is reading this to go back to that post (http://destee.com/forums/showpost.php?p=340504&postcount=34), and see that what i'm saying is true.

Brother Isaiah ... here you are calling folk out for breaking the rules, when you have done this time and time again. I don't understand this behavior. You repeatedly and blatantly broke our rules, calling Sister Indya out of her name with no question about it being directed at her. You acted savagely (http://destee.com/forums/showpost.php?p=335154&postcount=17) toward Sister LibertyLady, who has never done anything to anyone. Yet you want to come here today, and post about what Brother SAMURAI did before he was banned. He has already been banned, since making that SAVAGE comment and it is old news now.

If you have some new complaints about the Brother, please post them, and i'm sure one of the MALE Moderators, which you seem to prefer, will address your concern.

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Destee
well, I tell you, what, you do just that, ok! Thank you, much!

Peace!
Isaiah

well, I tell you, what, you do just that, ok! Thank you, much!

Peace!
Isaiah

You're very welcome.

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Destee