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Sweet baby_face 05-05-2005, 01:58 PM I have a question to all the men in the forum.
Do you have a specified height preference for
your girl. I wanna know because being vertically
challenged at 5'3(weighing150), I have been told
that I'm too short by guys that only 5'10.
So, how tall do you want your girlfriend to be?
SAMURAI36 05-05-2005, 02:05 PM Ultimately it doesn't matter--I prefer that a woman be filled out more, than being taller.
But ideally, I guess I'd have to say that I do prefer them taller, if given a choice.
But that doesn't mean that I'd discount the "vertically challenged" sisters, as you stated.
I've found that shorter women are some of the most physically beautiful.
PEACE
Khasm13 05-05-2005, 02:12 PM doesn't matter...
just as long as their is no distortions in the proportions...:wink:
one love
khasm
PositiveMindset 05-09-2005, 02:25 PM Myself, being a short statured man, 5'7", I would prefer my woman 2 be shorter than I am, cuz I like 2 look down in her eyes.
Taller women are definitely nice, but if I wanna kiss, I don't wanna stand on my tiptoes. Slow dancing also has a different "feel" when I'm with a woman my height or shorter.
$$RICH$$ 05-09-2005, 11:46 PM it really don't matter to me if she taller / shorter / same size
i never have really looked at it this way or by height
Ralfa'il 05-10-2005, 02:21 AM I'm well over 6 feet myself but from as far back as I can remember I've always prefered short women.
The shorter the better, especially if they're kind of thick.
It's something about them being small and looking like they need protection, it really gets me going.
oceolo 05-10-2005, 03:19 AM 5' 3" sounds like the perfect height to me
Sweet baby_face 05-10-2005, 06:33 PM Thank u oceolo
That's so sweet
U put a smile on my face
with that comment :D
oceolo 05-10-2005, 09:45 PM Thank u oceolo
That's so sweet
U put a smile on my face
with that comment :D
Your welcome
MANASIAC 05-11-2005, 09:36 PM I prefer to only roll 5'9 and up. If you are under 5'9 u got to do be super coo
river 05-12-2005, 08:33 PM I'm only 5'1 1/4" and no man has ever told me I was too short. They've called me short but never TOO short.
BTW Manasiac has a girl so pay him no mind.
Good things come in small packages
Short legs come with small feet
When we fall down we don't have far to go
And we always have someone to look up to
Most men like that--looking up to them i mean.
BUT
THINK tall. Carry yourself as a giant and you will be perceived as such.
This has been a public service message brought to you by DA RIVER
Ralfa'il 05-13-2005, 03:19 AM River
Respect
I'm only 5'1 1/4" and no man has ever told me I was too short. They've called me short but never TOO short.
BTW Manasiac has a girl so pay him no mind.
Good things come in small packages
Short legs come with small feet
When we fall down we don't have far to go
And we always have someone to look up to
5 foot 1 and a quarter ?
D'wayne from What's Happening said: Heydee Hey Hey.....!!!
I think you got something that belongs to me...can I hit it...I mean get it?
On a serious tip, you certainly seem to know how tall men love small feet on a woman.
Personally, I love a woman with cute little round toes, especially when she keeps them neat and polished.
They look like a set of polished pearls.
Shhhh... :donttell: But I just love squeeze on and wrap my hands around the small feet of a short woman just to watch her reaction at the comparison.
In more intimate situations I love the feeling of those small feet rubbing up and down against my chest and shoulders.
These bruthaz who are into tall women just don't know...
river 05-13-2005, 11:41 AM River
Respect
5 foot 1 and a quarter ?
D'wayne from What's Happening said: Heydee Hey Hey.....!!!
I think you got something that belongs to me...can I hit it...I mean get it?
On a serious tip, you certainly seem to know how tall men love small feet on a woman.
Personally, I love a woman with cute little round toes, especially when she keeps them neat and polished.
They look like a set of polished pearls.
Shhhh... :donttell: But I just love squeeze on and wrap my hands around the small feet of a short woman just to watch her reaction at the comparison.
In more intimate situations I love the feeling of those small feet rubbing up and down against my chest and shoulders.
These bruthaz who are into tall women just don't know...
Negro
I don't know when or where I opened the door for you to feel so free with me but I really don't need this.
Can't I lift you up without you putting me down?
You wouldn't speak to the queen of England like this so don't speak to me like this
BRUTHAH
Ralfa'il 05-14-2005, 02:07 AM River
Well.......
((rubbs face))
:toast: You certaintly are right, I'd never speak to the Queen of England...or any other white woman like that.
Im 5'11'' so I guess I am out of this discussion.
Sun Ship 05-15-2005, 10:29 AM Im 5'11'' so I guess I am out of this discussion.
Oh no you're not...!
Not as along as the Sun Ship's around!
So, if I know you're back on the boat and I'll soon let everyone know Sun Ship's opinions of the beauty and the prowess of a tall woman...! :hearts3: ...:D
river 05-15-2005, 10:59 AM River
Well.......
((rubbs face))
:toast: You certaintly are right, I'd never speak to the Queen of England...or any other white woman like that.
Well one thing my man ain't no oreo. No you're not.
PEACE
jamesfrmphilly 05-15-2005, 11:41 AM i'm 5'9" and 200lbs.
when i was young and playing ball i was 180lbs.
tall, short and in between it never mattered to me.
light, dark, whatever.
what counts is where her head is at.
soul comes in all kinds of packages.
that's been a pleasant surprise.
being around dancers most of my life i have always had slim and toned beauties.
i've never eaten any pork.
all a woman really needs for me is to drink plenty of water and get plenty of exercise.
eat healthy and mother nature will bless her.
a black woman is naturally beautiful out of the box.
all she really has to do is maintain what nature gives her.
it's a blessing, sisters, enjoy! :hearts3:
Ralfa'il 05-15-2005, 03:45 PM James
i'm 5'9" and 200lbs.
when i was young and playing ball i was 180lbs.
tall, short and in between it never mattered to me.
light, dark, whatever.
what counts is where her head is at.
soul comes in all kinds of packages.
that's been a pleasant surprise.
To be honest, I'm the same way.
I have certain attributes that I like better than others....like small breats, big round butts, stubby legs.....
But for the most part I couldn't nail it down like that and say that I ONLY like women who are such and such.
I've been attracted to tall and short, skinny and fat, light and dark, all types.
From my experiences...
You have to be careful around men who are TOO critical and choosy of women.
If a man is dissing 80% of the women he encounters because they're all "too" something...
The next time you see him he's liable to proclaim that he no longer likes ANY women, and snap his finger as he twists around and walks away. :eeek:
Monetary 05-15-2005, 04:55 PM 5'7" tall..........................
panafrica 05-16-2005, 06:16 AM I'm between 5'11 & 6'.....depends on what shoes I'm wearing!
SAMURAI36 05-16-2005, 11:53 AM Negro
I don't know when or where I opened the door for you to feel so free with me but I really don't need this.
Can't I lift you up without you putting me down?
You wouldn't speak to the queen of England like this so don't speak to me like this
BRUTHAH
Finally, someone has checked this dude and his savage actions. :deal:
Ralfa'il 05-16-2005, 11:17 PM Sam
Finally, someone has checked this dude and his savage actions.
You mean a woman had to do what you couldn't???
((shakes low hanging head))
No wonder the black woman had to be the back-bone of our community for so long.
....shame...shame...."Sam" is his name......
Ralfa'il 05-17-2005, 02:14 AM this is like so friggin petty it's sick! ok, an off the cuff compliment to our Dear Ladies, but .... why? ok, sam came silly too ... the question is: WHY DID ANYBODY HAVE TO DO ANYTHING? Where did you get off with the original comments? i guess there was an apology/"excuse me" in there somewhere buried in the recognition of deserving the face slap? ("... or any other white woman like that." ??? WTF!!! but you would/did say it to a Black Woman.)
Apologize for what?
Did I slap the sista...
Did I call her out her name....
Did I fondle or molest her against her will....
Did I threaten her...
What was my crime?
When did it get to the point among some of you self-righteous so-call "concious" negroes when just speaking to the opposite sex on sexual terms became a grievous and blasmphemous offense punishable by death and dismemberment?
No wonder so many of our women are turning to thugs.
Too many of the so called "concious" black men act so gay and sissyfied that they've forgotten the purpose the men and women serve toward eachother.
Then you sit up and wonder why you can't get a woman...why you can't find your "queen".
Because your "queen" doesn't want a "queer".
I can flirt with woman all day and say what I want and will never go to bed lonely because atleast they know I actually LIKE women and seek to provide for and protect them instead of just paying them lip service.
You same black men who want to come sliding down your purple rainbow to attack me just because I did a little flirting; where were you when they are sexually harassing our sistaz up in the work place and hand-cuffing little black girls down in Florida?
If you're THAT doggone outraged at the so-called "disrespect" of black females why don't you shut your mouth and DO SOMETHING about it when white men do it instead of trying to score points off of me?
I'm not apologizing for being a man with balls so I suggest yall find another "mark" to make an example off of.
That's a warning!
Ralfa'il 05-17-2005, 03:32 AM AnAfrican
My "rant" wasn't about women but about men who act like hypocrites.
Too many black men have been turned into punks when it comes to their women and instead of boldly declaring thier intentions and feelings about what they want and expect from women; they'd rather hide behind sweet talk and fake "chivalry" and try to show out on other men.
Like 2 bulls fighting and locking horns on a hill.
You don't see white butchering eachother up because one flirted with a woman and the other got mad.
It's hard for me to take bruthaz serious when they say they care so much about a black woman's honor that they can't stand to see another brutha flirt with her; but yet don't seem to show the same outrage when black women are sexually harassed and assaulted in the work place by white executives and managers.
I've experienced it.
I've seen bruthaz stab and fight at eachother at school and on the job over women but then when white managers flirt with them or slap these same women on the butt they just shake thier heads or ignore it grumbling under their breaths.
It's hypocrisy and cowardace.
Neither you nor any other so-called "concious" black man has any more claim or stake over our black sistaz than me or any other brutha. You don't own nobody and God didn't give you or Sam any special priviledges so you have no right to check me on how I relate to my own sistaz.
Anyway.....
It's half past midnight so go ahead and meet your lady in the chat-room, I'm gonna log off and join mine in the OTHER room.
Besides, we were just beginning to get along when you brought it all back up again.
triniti424 05-17-2005, 04:38 AM *sigh*
My brothas...my beloved blak warrior brotha kings...
I do understand that a man has to do what a man has to do and say what a man has to say...
Sister Queen River has gracefully said her peace and moved on...
~NOW~
My ever so passionate brotha warrior James... :grouphug:
My strong warrior Brotha Samurai... :grouphug:
My sincere hearted Brotha AnAfrican... :grouphug:
and My ever so opinionate Brotha Ralfa'il... :grouphug:
May we please have a humble agreement to a disagreement and simply move along.
All the work to be done amongst our people we are better off with your energy's dedicated towards that than a back and forth banter...
We are a FAMILY...AND being such its always someone in the family you may or may not care to sit with talk to shake hands with or WHATEVA...can we just move along... please :)
I am 5 7.5 but apparently according to my friends and family say it doesnt count lol
triniti424 05-17-2005, 12:47 PM Thank you brotha anAfrican :grouphug:
(moving along)
`course that half inch counts!! and you could prolly call it 5'8 just by stretching your spine, eh? <g>
I carry myself tall so most folks think I am 5'8 or taller...
and I teach yoga so when necessary...:look: I can make it count for more than its worth lol :D
Momma always said make the most of what you got ;)
river 05-17-2005, 12:47 PM Gee,
5'7, 5'9, 5'11!
Ya'll ever wonder what the weather's like down here?
Destee 05-17-2005, 01:25 PM *sigh*
My brothas...my beloved blak warrior brotha kings...
I do understand that a man has to do what a man has to do and say what a man has to say...
Sister Queen River has gracefully said her peace and moved on...
~NOW~
My ever so passionate brotha warrior James... :grouphug:
My strong warrior Brotha Samurai... :grouphug:
My sincere hearted Brotha AnAfrican... :grouphug:
and My ever so opinionate Brotha Ralfa'il... :grouphug:
May we please have a humble agreement to a disagreement and simply move along.
All the work to be done amongst our people we are better off with your energy's dedicated towards that than a back and forth banter...
We are a FAMILY...AND being such its always someone in the family you may or may not care to sit with talk to shake hands with or WHATEVA...can we just move along... please :)
I am 5 7.5 but apparently according to my friends and family say it doesnt count lol
Sister Triniti ... there is no one else like you
keep on make'n yo' Momma (and all the rest of us) proud !!! :blush:
such an honor knowing you
:heart:
Destee
jamesfrmphilly 05-17-2005, 02:16 PM triniti424:
it is not possible to move on when you have a toxic irritant in your system.
Sun Ship 05-17-2005, 02:41 PM After seeing the various sizes or heights of the sisters in this thread… I don’t think any of the sisters who have posted so far, can be considered too tall or too short (whatever either really means).
I think it’s how you carry yourself, being comfortable with your own body and how the woman relates to a man who is taller for the most part…when you’re over 6 feet as a man, it is rare to find women taller than you…and with all the things that a man needs to have in common with a woman, in order to have a good and enjoyable relationship, height is sort of non-factor (within reason).
It’s usually not a factor during sex and you can enjoy different women, different ways. I think what really bothers some Black men or women is really how they are perceived together before others in public that may have many men or women overly concerned about height…and that may be also a little shallow and possibly a lack of self-confidence.
If the truth be told, taller (5’9 – 6’0) and very statuettes women intimidate "some men" (no matter how tall the man may be)…and as strange as it seems they also have issues with their public image and masculinity if the woman is too small or short.
As I said, this is all about the public image…we need to remember how many well-known male celebrities are really sort of short and are usually purposely cast with love interest and supporting actors that are their same height or shorter.
Brothers, I don’t think a few inches one way or the other in a woman’s height should be allowed to cheat you out of what may be pretty together sister.
Peace
Ralfa'il 05-17-2005, 02:56 PM Sun Ship
If the truth be told, taller (5’9 – 6’0) and very statuettes women intimidate "some men" (no matter how tall the man may be)…and as strange as it seems they also have issues with their public image and masculinity if the woman is too small or short.
This is true.
Some men...especially those of average height....are psychologically intimidated by a tall woman wondering sub-conciously would he be able to completely satisfy her in bed.
Sun Ship 05-17-2005, 03:11 PM Brother, I thank god for those old men who taught me not to be on intimidated by any woman…when I was a youngster, they showed me how to appreciate a tall woman, when they use to say, with a big smile on their face, “now that’s a tall drink of wata’ dere boy” :)
And there are definitely some small sisters who can chop a big man down to size…for like they say “it’s not the size of the ship, but the motion in that ocean” :D
I remember one little street-smart sister looked up at me and said with a confident hot and sassy voice, "you want me to climb that mountain" :lol:
Life has taught me to never underestimate (or necessarily overestimate) anybody! …if you’re smart, you better give everybody a little benefit of the doubt.
Ralfa'il 05-17-2005, 03:51 PM Sun
I personally have found women of all forms attractive and have dated a few over 6 feet tall, but still...
There's something about that "high butt" on a tall sista that just.....(brrrrr)...shivers me timber.
Shorty
hmmmmmmm
And if she is short is that concern alleviated?
Don't ask me?
I ain't average hieght.
I thought it had something to do with control. Can he control her? But that's psychological too. A tall puddytat might be easier to control than a short tasmanian devil.
Well, one of the things I personally like about short and petite women is that they are physically easier to manuever in intimate situations.
There's nothing like the feeling of a small woman crawling all over you and tickling you with her "charms".
Or a short sista who can leap into your lap and play around with you putting you at ease after a stress filled day.
Point is height has little to do with the things men try to judge by height.
But I'm happy you like short women with small feet. The one man who expressed his like for me and we darn near liked to have started a riot.
Well....you know what that was all about.
One man gets more attention than the next so the next has to come up with a new hook to get back in the game. :tennis:
triniti424 05-17-2005, 03:53 PM Gee,
5'7, 5'9, 5'11!
Ya'll ever wonder what the weather's like down here?
Sister you got it covered hehehe I trust ya forecast lol
Funny thing is as much of a tomboy as I was growing up...
I wear pumps/stillettos/and the like often shooo I can run jump and yoga in em *giggles*
I mean :rolleyes: not that I have eva done anything that would ummm require that yanno :D
but I do look a lot taller than most folk think.
triniti424 05-17-2005, 03:57 PM Brother, I thank god for those old men who taught me not to be on intimidated by any woman…when I was a youngster, they showed me how to appreciate a tall woman, when they use to say, with a big smile on their face, “now that’s a tall drink of wata’ dere boy” :)
And there are definitely some small sisters who can chop a big man down to size…for like they say “it’s not the size of the ship, but the motion in that ocean” :D
I remember one little street-smart sister looked up at me and said with a confident hot and sassy voice, "you want me to climb that mountain" :lol:
Life has taught me to never underestimate (or necessarily overestimate) anybody! …if you’re smart, you better give everybody a little benefit of the doubt.
lol hmmm well we now know brotha sunship is a mountain lol
and something about you my brotha tells me that
most sisters would end up using their "confident hot and sassy voice" with ya
regardless of height lol
Well, one of the things I personally like about short and petite women is that they are physically easier to manuever in intimate situations.
Annnnnnd I think its pretty safe to say brotha Ralfa'il likes to drive lol
triniti424 05-17-2005, 03:59 PM Sister Triniti ... there is no one else like you
keep on make'n yo' Momma (and all the rest of us) proud !!! :blush:
such an honor knowing you
:heart:
Destee
:heart: I am just following suit with my Sister Queen Destee Mae ;)
ya eva heard of her? shes rather fantabulous & specBLAKular ;) and a hottie at that!
but word on the street is she cant cook :lol: (sorry sister I couldnt help it :laugh: )
but hey good as she look I dont think any of these brothas yearnin afta her will mind ;) :hot: :heart:
SAMURAI36 05-17-2005, 04:09 PM triniti424:
it is not possible to move on when you have a toxic irritant in your system.
LOL :lol:
My, how this thread has taken off in my absense. :look:
triniti424 05-17-2005, 04:16 PM LOL :lol:
My, how this thread has taken off in my absense. :look:
Mmmmm I spose it has brotha Samurai but I am hoping you will use your best judgement and allow it to CONTINUE in the RIGHT direction regardless of any "irritants" you may have :) please :grouphug:
SAMURAI36 05-17-2005, 04:26 PM Mmmmm I spose it has brotha Samurai but I am hoping you will use your best judgement and allow it to CONTINUE in the RIGHT direction regardless of any "irritants" you may have :) please :grouphug:
If for naught other reason, than your honor, M'Lady. :angel1:
PEACE
triniti424 05-17-2005, 04:34 PM If for naught other reason, than your honor, M'Lady. :angel1:
PEACE
Thank you so much my Brotha Warrior Samurai :grouphug: :heart: :grouphug:
I trust your intentions are only for our peoples betterment :heart: :)
Ralfa'il 05-17-2005, 05:00 PM I'm trying to remember that one line in G-Dep's song "Special Delivery".
Now how did it go......
"Want a jewel, don't be cruel
It's authentic, don't be fooled
By these phony accusations
Backlash and slanders
Their fronts, and their publicity stunts and propaganda"
:wink: Ahh yes...that's it!
triniti424 05-17-2005, 05:18 PM I'm trying to remember that one line in G-Dep's song "Special Delivery".
Now how did it go......
"Want a jewel, don't be cruel
It's authentic, don't be fooled
By these phony accusations
Backlash and slanders
Their fronts, and their publicity stunts and propaganda"
:wink: Ahh yes...that's it!
smh lol Brotha Ralfa'il you ALWAYS gotta say somethin dont you smh
you gon mess around and make me record you singing and make that our OFFICIAL "DESTEE.COM SINGING VOICE" lol
QQ
so watch yaself QQ hehehe
Sweet baby_face 05-17-2005, 07:56 PM :cuss: All I ask was was their
a specified height preference
with the men in the forum.
And I get G-Dep lyrics being
quoted? I guess I should have
ask who is your favorite rap
one-hit wonder,huh? :cuss:
river 05-17-2005, 08:26 PM Sun
I personally have found women of all forms attractive and have dated a few over 6 feet tall, but still...
There's something about that "high butt" on a tall sista that just.....(brrrrr)...shivers me timber.
Shorty
Don't ask me?
I ain't average hieght.
Well, one of the things I personally like about short and petite women is that they are physically easier to manuever in intimate situations.
There's nothing like the feeling of a small woman crawling all over you and tickling you with her "charms".
Or a short sista who can leap into your lap and play around with you putting you at ease after a stress filled day.
Well....you know what that was all about.
One man gets more attention than the next so the next has to come up with a new hook to get back in the game. :tennis:
Where did I say that? You did not hear me say nothing like that. Try to make peace and they misread you. I still believe that Black men are kings in spite of the egos some have:lol:
.
Sun Ship 05-18-2005, 12:57 PM Funny thing is as much of a tomboy as I was growing up...
I wear pumps/stillettos/and the like often shooo I can run jump and yoga in em *giggles*
I mean not that I have eva done anything that would ummm require that yanno
but I do look a lot taller than most folk think.
Now I think this is what I’m talking about…who is concerned about height when a woman can do all of that, in pair of stilettos…
Yoga in stilettos!!! The Sun Ship is already ready to set sail…man this is getting close to Nirvana. :D
Man I’m getting too excited…breathe Sun Ship... breathe…. pranayama!
lol hmmm well we now know brotha sunship is a mountain lol
and something about you my brotha tells me that
most sisters would end up using their "confident hot and sassy voice" with ya
regardless of height lol
Here we go again…sister Triniti…is ready to go!
1) We have a beautiful charming Black woman
2) With a job…(A saw a very revealing picture of her waiting to go to work_lol) :D
3) Yoga instructor
4) Surely intelligent (or she wouldn’t be here droppin’ knowledge at Destee.com)
5) Got her hiking boots on…and ready to climb that mountain...she's ready to go!
The Sun Ship don’t know if he should raise his mast or drop his anchor… :spin:
Who care if she’s 5 foot 7 and a half…the Sun Ship can find a way to make up for that ˝ of inch, if necessary… :D
Yoga in stilettos….!!! Stop it Sun Ship…(slapped my own hand and bumped my own head__lol)
Annnnnnd I think its pretty safe to say brotha Ralfa'il likes to drive lol
Look here triniti...a woman of any size can steer the Sun Ship, if she knows what she's doing and the Sun Ship can drive a woman of any size (the real old skool)
:tongue3: Ooops ...thats a whole 'nother thread...:D
Peace,
Sun Ship :cool:
oceolo 05-19-2005, 08:41 AM Never knew there was such a thing as a female who is too short.
Ralfa'il 05-22-2005, 04:02 PM Never knew there was such a thing as a female who is too short.
A midget is too short.
I wouldn't hook up with a woman who was a midget.
Not because I couldn't love her; I've seen some midgets I've found quite attractive....most of them are thick.
But I don't think I could deal with the public reaction of having someone a third of my size toddling around with me.
Sweet baby_face 06-08-2005, 05:24 PM y'all are crazy all up
and there here!!
It's so amazing how a thread topic can be changed.
Just playing!!!!!!
I love it here!!!!!!!!
triniti424 06-08-2005, 05:27 PM y'all are crazy all up
and there here!!
It's so amazing how a thread topic can be changed.
Just playing!!!!!!
I love it here!!!!!!!!
Thats cause they nastee :lol:
Sweet baby_face 06-08-2005, 06:19 PM U're preaching to the choir here.
Just foul.
:donttell:
But I really love y'all here. :hearts3:
triniti424 06-08-2005, 06:39 PM U're preaching to the choir here.
Just foul.
:donttell:
But I really love y'all here. :hearts3:
teehehehe i wont tell if you wont LOL
Akilah 06-08-2005, 10:32 PM Well I'm barely over 5 ft tall.... and I only feel short when I can't reach something on a high shelf. I guess that's why The Creator blessed me with a 6 ft tall husband and I LOVE that even though I'm a "Big Gurl" he considers me to be "petite"... :blush:
Much Peace
& Love E'rrybody !
brother Malik 06-08-2005, 11:58 PM I'm 6'3'' and I weight about 230lbs and I have no height preference for women. I have a brain preference. The ability to articulate is attractive. A women who is smarter than me is really attractive. I do a very bad job of trying not to let physical looks be so important when determining how attractive a woman is. I try but I'm weak. I but I think Destee is pretty.
Kwango_Likemba 06-10-2005, 12:54 AM I am 5'10. I stand pretty tall with heels. I like men taller than me. Women shorter than me.
Sekhemu 06-10-2005, 09:41 AM I am 5'10. I stand pretty tall with heels. I like men taller than me. Women shorter than me.
Not to sound rude or anything, and this is not a trick question. But I noticed this thread was addressed to men, do you feel that you're a man?
MANASIAC 06-10-2005, 10:30 AM Sek she could be Bi?
Kwango_Likemba 06-10-2005, 04:56 PM Not to sound rude or anything, and this is not a trick question. But I noticed this thread was addressed to men, do you feel that you're a man?
Yes, I believe you came out "rude." Many Brothers answer questions asked by Sisters, for Sisters, why I can’t give my opinion here? I started a thread on the Sisters forum about how I mostly identify as a man perhaps you don’t remember? Anyhow, for those who don’t know I am bisexual.
If the Brothers on this forum don’t want me to post in their threads, knowing I like women, that’s fine I won’t post in your 'special' threads anymore.
Kwango_Likemba 06-10-2005, 05:04 PM And my bad…. I guess I should have read the first post to know this thread was for "men."
MANASIAC 06-10-2005, 05:21 PM Yo Kwango you cool wit me ma. You can post anywhere you want, I do not think it really matters.
Kwango_Likemba 06-10-2005, 05:38 PM Thanks Brother Manasiac!
Destee 06-10-2005, 07:59 PM If the Brothers on this forum don’t want me to post in their threads, knowing I like women, that’s fine I won’t post in your 'special' threads anymore.
Sister Kwango ... Brother MANASIAC is right ... you are welcome to post to any thread found here.
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Destee
Sekhemu 06-10-2005, 08:01 PM And my bad…. I guess I should have read the first post to know this thread was for "men."
Ok, this is why I asked you the question. I wasn't trying to disrepect you, I thought you knew that it was a thread addressed to men.
Sekhemu 06-10-2005, 08:02 PM Kwango I'm not gonna ask you any questions pertaining to sexuality, ok? I don't want you to take things the wrong way.
Akilah 06-10-2005, 10:54 PM Just.... WHY ???
str8remy 06-11-2005, 12:38 AM I used to have a preference since I'm 6'3 I don't want to date someone taller than me otherwise I have no preference, I simply love women but only one will satisfy my soul.
Kwango_Likemba 06-11-2005, 01:24 AM Kwango I'm not gonna ask you any questions pertaining to sexuality, ok? I don't want you to take things the wrong way.
That’s cool Brother Sekhemu…. the fact that SO MANY BROTHERS post on the Sisters forum I thought I could say a little something here.
You have changed a lot! You have become a VERY RESPECTFUL MAN. I love that! And you are right I think we don’t need to talk about my sexuality. I don’t feel comfortable saying what I do in bed with women. I still need to talk about Black women once in a awhile..talk about their looks and wonderful mind.
Sister Kwango ... Brother MANASIAC is right ... you are welcome to post to any thread found here.
Sister Destee thank you! My Queen!
Sekhemu 06-11-2005, 01:46 AM That’s cool Brother Sekhemu…. the fact that SO MANY BROTHERS post on the Sisters forum I thought I could say a little something here.
You have changed a lot! You have become a VERY RESPECTFUL MAN. I love that! And you are right I think we don’t need to talk about my sexuality. I don’t feel comfortable saying what I do in bed with women. I still need to talk about Black women once in a awhile..talk about their looks and wonderful mind.
Sister Destee thank you! My Queen!
Thank you sistah Kwango for your sentiments.
If I may say, I'm not known to be disrespectul to the black woman on this site. at least not to my knowledge.
I have love for my sistahs( including you Kwango) and brothers, we all are a work in progress beloved
If I can empathize with your pain, we have moved one step ahead of our enemy.
Kwango_Likemba 06-11-2005, 02:15 AM Thank you sistah Kwango for your sentiments.
If I may say, I'm not known to be disrespectul to the black woman on this site. at least not to my knowledge.
I have love for my sistahs( including you Kwango) and brothers, we all are a work in progress beloved
If I can empathize with your pain, we have moved one step ahead of our enemy.
Brother Sekhemu I meant to say… you became VERY WISE! Everything you say is wisdom – no joke. You are showing us how to accept other Black people, how to understand their point of views and existence...
Yes, Black men must have nothing but RESPECT for Black woman! The Black men must found pride in Black women, treat them like Royalties they love and protect so much! Black women must fight for the love and dignity of Black men... raise their babies and be faithful to them... risk anything for them!
Brother Sekhemu you are one of these special Black men. I have read enough of you to know that! I had to hijack this thread to say that! :D
Sekhemu 06-11-2005, 10:43 AM Brother Sekhemu I meant to say… you became VERY WISE! Everything you say is wisdom – no joke. You are showing us how to accept other Black people, how to understand their point of views and existence...
Yes, Black men must have nothing but RESPECT for Black woman! The Black men must found pride in Black women, treat them like Royalties they love and protect so much! Black women must fight for the love and dignity of Black men... raise their babies and be faithful to them... risk anything for them!
Brother Sekhemu you are one of these special Black men. I have read enough of you to know that! I had to hijack this thread to say that! :D
Thank you Sistah
One love
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