What is it with these brothahs who marry and date whte women but swear up and down that they love black women? When they tell me how beautiful and intelligent and sweet black woman are am I supposed to feel flattered? Verily, verily I say unto thee that I do not feel flattered. I have no problem with black men marrying white women. If that's your choice that's your choice. More power to you. Just don't come trying to kiss up to me. Like the song say you gotta love the one you're with.

While we are on the subject of aggressive women I'd like some feedback here. But I'll let you initiate it.

Maybe their on a guilt trip when they see a black woman...who knows.

It is some sort of guilt trip for dating IR for the wrong reasons .... or they are trying hard to prove they are still real becuase they are self conscious about the whole situation. I have heard many black women complain about black males with white girls staring at them (the look) when they cross in the street. I dotn know what causes someone who probably didnt notice all the fine black women in the first place to suddenly look......but that is their business really. I think the same can be true of black females who date IR too.

indeed they feel guilty about crossing over and seek approval
or trying to lay that sisterly love crap down and going home to that woman
to express a different emotion about a sistah........truely a false face

Black females come in many shapes sizes and colors, why go anywhere else?
I've thought about dating a white female but i'm happy I never acted on it, and I dont plan to, NEVER! Why limit myself?

In my personal opinion and this my be stereotype to sum, but must white females that date black dudes are wanna be black females I think and just what to have a baby by him to be that much closer to "being black" .

Those are great insights. Very enlightening. Now what is a good response to brothahs who come around with the "sisterly love crap?" I know ya'll will have a ball with this question.

Are we just speaking of white women?
I wouldn't date a white woman. I have dated women of another race...and I can still say that I love black women, truthfully. I don't go in anyone's face for approval or anything like that, but if someone asks "do you date black women" I would tell them "yes, and I love black women with a passion too". There is nothing that can make me stop loving black women. If I happen to be dating a woman of another race, does that mean I love black women any less....no. It just means I love women as a whole.

Are we just speaking of white women?
I wouldn't date a white woman. I have dated women of another race...and I can still say that I love black women, truthfully. I don't go in anyone's face for approval or anything like that, but if someone asks "do you date black women" I would tell them "yes, and I love black women with a passion too". There is nothing that can make me stop loving black women. If I happen to be dating a woman of another race, does that mean I love black women any less....no. It just means I love women as a whole.

I think this applies more to those who gotta mention to the world they are dating out of race for prestige, but then wanna feel real so they go overboard with compliments to black women they would not have other wize. Most people cn tell the difference between that foolishness and how you say you conduct yourself which seems fine to me. JMO

Those are great insights. Very enlightening. Now what is a good response to brothahs who come around with the "sisterly love crap?" I know ya'll will have a ball with this question.

Ask them for an example fo a specific black woman they have admired, been friendly with, dated or been in a relationship with that they said that to. Ask them if they showed that appreciation before dating IR or while they were still single too. :sand:

I think this applies more to those who gotta mention to the world they are dating out of race for prestige, but then wanna feel real so they go overboard with compliments to black women they would not have other wize. Most people cn tell the difference between that foolishness and how you say you conduct yourself which seems fine to me. JMO

You are feeling me MrBlak. There's always an exception. People can have the same actions but it's the motive and the mindset which determines if one is together in the head and heart or not. Those who go overboard because they are obviously trying to prove something through their words which they can't prove by their actions are the ones who get on my nerves.

And that is a good response.

I think this applies more to those who gotta mention to the world they are dating out of race for prestige, but then wanna feel real so they go overboard with compliments to black women they would not have other wize. Most people cn tell the difference between that foolishness and how you say you conduct yourself which seems fine to me. JMO

Oh my bad, thanks for breakin it down. I do think that people who go overboard are trying to fool themselves too, because they know that they are dating white women for shallow reasons. Like, they think white women are more of a prize, or are looked upon with more respect, therefore if they have a white woman on their arm they get that respect and admiration from friends. Maybe they have black friends or relatives that see right through them so they feel they have to put up a front and pretend they haven't sold-out. I mean, if you get with a white woman for those shallow reasons then you are a sell-out. Or maybe they believe the hyped-up magazines and television shows, pretending that blonde hair and blue eyes are the greatest. Maybe they soaked it all up on the way to being brainwashed. They just don't want to seem as simple-minded as they really are, so they try to walk both sides of the fence.