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KIDS PIVKING THIER NAMES

naija-man
03-17-2004, 07:32 AM
SUPPOSING YOU GIVE THEM A NAME THAT THEY DON'T LIKE--SHOULD YOUR SON/DUAGHTER-BE ALLOWED TO CHANGE IT OR AT LEAST-PICK ANOTHER NAME AND PUT IT IN FRONT OF THEIROTHER NAME/S??
WOULD U LET YOUR CHILD COOSE THEIR OWN NAME-
WHEN WHEN YOU FEEL THIER OLD ENOUGH TOO.

Destee
03-17-2004, 10:19 AM
Hello Brother Naija-Man ... i'd "let" them do anything they want when they become an adult ... but prior to that ... they'd be stuck with the name they were given.

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CarrieMonet
03-17-2004, 06:24 PM
My daughter would like to change her last name and I'm totally for it.

the_story
03-17-2004, 06:45 PM
i have the family name, but i don't think i like it that much...i mean its okayyyy...but when i grow up ima probably change it...but my moms says that if i change it she would kill me...lol...i don't know....tell me what u think...
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-story

Sapphdia
03-17-2004, 08:20 PM
My real name is an arabic name. It is long and people have taken the machete to it all of my life, but when I was younger, I didn't really like my name. I just wanted a "normal" name that people wouldn't mess up or make fun of. But as I got older I loved my name. My name means beloved and I think it describes me perfectly. I would never change my name as it is a part of who I am and who my family is. If I had my way when I was young, I'd be Ericka instead of Beloved.

I firmly believe that people take on the characteristic of their name. Now, there are some out there that I would totally understand them wanting to change their name. There was a guy named Malice (pronounced Maleece) and he died an unfortunate death after having been on the other side of the law, so to speak. I know a girl who named her daughter Clitona. I'm not even going to comment. But you get my point. :mad:

I would never name my child something like that. The name that I choose for my child doesn't have to be difficult to understand or pronounce, but it will definitely have a positive meaning, so I definitely wouldn't allow MY child at any time, to change their name.

CarrieMonet
03-18-2004, 02:10 AM
Considering my daughter's father changed his entire name to DivineBorn Supreme Allah...I feel she is entitled to change her last name if she chooses. She feels a sense of disconnect with me and does not want the last name Allah. She would become Breyahna Monet

I'd be hurt if she wanted to change her first name as I love her name. But she will be a grown woman soon and can change it if she likes, whether I approve or not.

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