Virgo and Sexual Compatibility

Under your cool facade is a very passionate nature. You keep your sexuality well hidden, waiting for the conditions to be right. Fortunately for you, however, is the fact that you mate well with both the earth and water signs, so you should have no difficulty finding a satisfactory mate...

Cancer can give you the intense sexuality you need, and the clinging-vine qualities of this sign make you feel loved and needed. Pisces is very passionate and will try to please the discriminating Virgo; this can be an excellent relationship. Virgo is the sign of service, and, re: sex, likes to be dominated. Who but Scorpio, the sign of sex, could make Virgo the most exciting sexual partner? If Scorpio will take the time to be romantic and not too possessive and demanding, this can be a most happy and mutually understanding relationship...

Virgo also mates well with another Virgo, who truly understands...or with a patient, tolerant Taurean. Surprisingly, critical Virgo makes an excellent mate for ambitious Capricorn, both of whom are essentially conservative, selective, and practical about sex...

The Virgo native should avoid a sexual relationship with any of the air-sign people, who are too elusive and impractical. Virgo will get bored with Gemini’s chatter; will find Libra’s flirtations boring after a certain point; and will get no romantic thrill in the courtship of an Aquarian, whose sexless, unconventional approach would eventually turn the Virgo off...

Earth can also put out fire, which the Virgo cannot help doing. Aries has no patience with the Virgo tendency to occasionally sublimate passion, and will feel outrageously rejected. Sexually, Virgo and Leo are impossible. The Lion will smart under The Virgin’s constant, critical assaults. Shy, reticent Virgo is embarrassed by Leo’s pompous attitude toward life. Sagittarius is passionate, but finds Virgo’s methodical attitude toward sex too slow and unenthusiastic...

strange...i have very little interest in earth signs...water and air w/the exception of aquarius (we're good pals, but...) is fun and sometimes a little too comfortable and fire...a completely combustible relationship!! the great is great and the bad is...whoo...

hmmm...i've never been avrg...i suppose that i shouldn't expect my personality in regards to my sun sign to be either....:confused: :)

Hmm...I'm a Virgo, and I do have somewhat of a hidden fire.... :):heart:

O' my goodness, I should think more about this...thank u for sharing this with us Virgo's Aquil....'

lo'-I'll be scrutanising my partners from now onwards.

You're quite welcome, mkhaya lo'...scrutinizing comes natural to you discriminating Virgos...;)

Btw, I love your handle...is that your name? What South African dialect is it and what does it mean?

I was asked about the history and astrological information re: Nelson Mandela and his former wife Winnie. Here was my response:

Nelson Mandela (7/18/’18) is a member of a royal Xhosa family. He was born Rolihlahla Mandela, son of Chief Hendry Mandela, of the ruling Madiba clan of the Tembu tribe. He is a Cancer with the Moon in Scorpio. His former wife Winnie (9/26/’34) was born Winifred Madikizela, and is also Xhosa. She is a Libra with the Moon in Taurus.

Astrologically speaking, her Sun squares (90° aspect, considered adverse) his Sun, and her Moon opposes (180° aspect, also considered adverse) his Moon. Although theirs was one of the greatest love stories of all time, these powerful negative aspects in their composite chart indicate basic incompatibility...

I thought about this many times after I read his fabulous autobiography, Higher Than Hope. As newlyweds they became famous for their numerous fights, especially when he was trying to teach her how to drive!... :)

Those are pretty cool words to hear, being that I'm currently in a relationship with a woman whose sign is Cancer.

I have told her that God made us for each other.

Could I have been more right than I actually expected?

I don't really believe in horoscopes and what not, (I seem to always say this), but you are accurate with your description of me and my relationships.

Cancer can give you the intense sexuality you need, and the clinging-vine qualities of this sign make you feel loved and needed...

You're quite welcome, mkhaya lo'...

how can u make the virgo feel needed with the clingin vines of cancer , without making them feel pressured? my venus is in cancer , does this mean i have clingign tendencies?

Somewhat...but as a Leo it is not your nature to cling...

no it is more my nature to fire you outta my life. no comment. lol

virgos are freaks, and if they really like u, will do just about anything kinky, but not gross, know what i mean.

hmmmm. "Sexually, Virgo and Leo are impossible" me and my virgo have bothe admitted it's the best ever in our lives! it's like fireworks! i'm wondering if perhaps his moon or ascendant has anything to do with that factor......he definitely doesn't have a virgo face......

i really only had one prob with the leo's who have infiltrated my life and that's control. i choose not to control anyone nor do i care to be controlled...and they choose to attempt to control me and not themselves...lol feel me? lol they were never dull relationships for certain and we are good friends to date.

i have a friend who is a cancer. he wants to take our friendship to another level. i love him to death. he's intelligent, successful in career and life, funny, very attractive... but for some reason, the idea getting naked with him just makes me go BLAH... lol don't know why... lol

hmmmmm, wow, control, yes, i will say this i have met some female leos whoare complete control freaks, i have tendencies to be domineering , but thru experience, i have learned to discipline my self, and my energy, yah lol.

learned to discipline that energy, hmmmm... perhaps your yielding to your venus... lol

yah, that sucks lol, venus sucks.

ms. more:

Venus in Cancer indicates that you have a strong protective desire to shield your loved ones, yet you need the security of being loved yourself. Unfortunately, this does not always develop for you. Unseen obstacles are put in the way of marriage, either because of a lack of money, the wrong job or profession, or the objections of parents.

Still, you are strongly attracted and attached domesticity, and probably have a strong affection for you mother, your home, and the feeling of comfort and security it gives you.

You are sincere and sentimental, imaginative, kindhearted, and responsive to the emotions of others. You have a basically loving nature, receptive and sympathetic. You will probably have several secret love affairs, and at least one marriage or alliance with someone considerably older or younger than yourself. This could very likely be with someone involved in mysticism or occultism of some kind.

You are basically interested in psychic research, mystical religion, and anything of a mysterious nature. You may have certain psi talents as well.

With Venus in Cancer you tend to develop alliances or friendships with those who are on a lower rung of the social ladder. You may also become involved in an unpopular, obscure or lowly job. Yet, strangely enough, you can profit from any occupation connected with liquids or liquid refreshments. There also is a good indication that you will gain through your parents or profit by dealings in land or houses.

WHAT THINKS THOU THE COMPATABILITY OF A VIRGO FEMALE AND A CUSP BORN LEO/VIRGO MALE? ANY THOUGHTS? LOL NO BUT REALLY...ANY THOUGHTS? PEACE AND BLESSINGS!

Fire and earth are incompatible elements, Lili...the cusp-born Leo - although he possesses some Virgo traits - is basically a magnaminous person...generous, gregarious, and loves to be the center of attention. Leos detest detail, and all that is petty and critical. They are the natural thespians of the zodiac...

what if he's waaaaay more detail oriented than i am. possible or simply part of that thespian spirit? i'm actually more demanding of a stage presence than he...or so it seems... hmmmm... thanks for your response Aqil!

If your prospective mate is a Leo born on the cusp of Virgo who is a detailed person, then the Virgo traits in his horoscope are quite strong...

(You're welcome, Lili...)

Typically I stray when it comes to actually interpreting astrology, but your description of me was to the "t".

I mean currently I am involved with a Leo, and he bores me to death :puke: . He is constanlty talking about absolutely nothing...i guess now i see why. THANKS.

Typically I stray when it comes to actually interpreting astrology, but your description of me was to the "t". I mean currently I am involved with a Leo, and he bores me to death :puke: . He is constanlty talking about absolutely nothing...i guess now i see why. THANKS.You're quite welcome, cuvriefloesta...

MBA:

Although the information on Virgo and sexual compatibility applies to you, there is another variable that must be considered. The sign Aquarius is on the cusp of your 7th house of marriage, intimate relationships, business partnerships and open enemies. Check out your chart in the Virgo thread for the interpretation...

thanks you been over there and replied...wow an Aquarius
thas different ok....

Yes, according to your horoscope a mate born under the sign Aquarius (1/23-2/23) is quite suitable for you...maybe one day...but always remember... :)

Hey Aquil!!

Some time has past since I last posted regarding this subject. It's now been over a year and sometimes I feel sorry for the poor LEO/Virgo man. He seems completely confused and uncomfortable in his skin at times!! It's interesting to see....also annoying!! lol He's very intelligent, very creative and caring...but something snaps in his head and he becomes a liar...about strange little things...and then very secretive. I know that we Virgos can hold something close to our chests for ever...without anyone being the wiser... Do you think that his Virgo has him lost or does his Leo cause these strange environmental changes?

Hello Lili...good2cu again. What you have described are traits and characteristics of the sign Pisces, which is Virgo's polar opposite and complimentary sign. It is the sign of secrets, and because of their powerful imagination, it is said that they tell the most fibs...:)

That's interesting... his little fibs seem to be increasing in size and creativity by the day or perhaps I'm noticing them more. He's very complicated...or perhaps that's how he likes to appear. I don't know. What I do know is that he truly does seem to be a little lost and confused himself... I know how I feel having been with someone for this amount of time and only recently to understand that I don't know him at all. It must be horrible for him... lol... it's not funny, but really... it must be. Pisces huh? hmmm... Thanks Aquil!

Aquil...the man told someone that he was wanted for the Olympics as a javelin(sp??) thrower but declined!! Imagination?? Problems?? You don't have to answer that. lol IT's not funny though...